Husbands ex wife using 21 and 15 year old sons to guilt trip him into giving her more money.?

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Gonzales
Asked at 2012-08-13 02:15:03
My husband has 2 children ages 21 and 15 with his former wife. They have been divorced for 6 years and has significant financial problems (after the mortgage , car payment , taxes , etc). My husband pays half of your take home pay each month in child support and alimony .... but never enough. He has helped by paying all medical expenses (though it is supposed to pay 50 %) buying all the clothes and funded children 18 months of college for their oldest son, who could not be bothered working and abandoned without a single credit. This child will not work too and they are just looking for handouts from my husband .... if my husband refuses to her eldest son refuses to see him and says he's deadbeat dad . He paid his car loan too. The youngest son is a hard worker and was doing very well in school , but now he is resentful because his mother is telling him that if his father helped him more, then we would not be in this financial mess and he thinks and says now his father does not want to go out with him unless he helps her mother more.
I do not know what to do .... who loves his children and wants them to be good. Not your fault that your mother is so bad , but how long can this go on . I'm starting to resent too. I have 2 girls in college that I would like help from time to time but can not because his ex and her son are like parasites. Ex wife also bad mouths me to anyone who will listen. Why so bitter? She wanted a divorce not my husband and I was not so why are so angry with me and my husband. Thanks for any help with this.
Answer1kaileeAnswered at 2012-08-05 22:17:02
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Answer2Jack GoodeAnswered at 2012-08-19 12:12:27
At age 21 , I am assuming that you know your husband has no financial obligation to his son . Let's take him out in the real world and win .... uh , nobody wants to work for a living , but that's life , too bad ! MedlinePlus As for the 15yo , children are expensive , but if you pay your share child support , oh well . If he has the financial capacity to provide extras , then good , but if not , again good. Life is hard for everyone .... telling the child to get a part time job for any accessory you want .....
Answer3AugustaAnswered at 2012-09-06 03:11:03
Tell your husband lazy lazy to get a second job or your kids will end up hating him. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus She hates to do than doing it miserable.
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