How do I cope with feeling like I'm behind in my life? Why is everyone so much more advanced than me?

I 'm 25 with a college degree , and I feel like I've accomplished nothing ! People younger than me are married, have children , have good jobs , debt free, own home , went abroad , had fun adventures, like snow skiing and water skiing. They have new , luxury cars , luxury paid . No one and nothing is stopping them . Just a great success . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Here I have a title . I'm in a lot of student loans and other debts (Hurricane Katrina is to blame ) . My degree is in Spanish , and I'm still not fluent . After failing to find a job , the new car I had, has repossessed . My credit score is probably the lowest of the low. Too many people have destroyed my life and taken advantage of me , and special opportunities taken away from me . The family is the main culprit because you threaten your money and then beat you up , make lies about you , try to get you arrested , and worse . I've been traumatized and protected all my life . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus People tell me I should not work , better not get pregnant if I had a boyfriend who was saying something away from me . My personal life is not fair . I have been harassed and abused my whole life . And I have to suffer for what has been taken from me ! I have unjustly gotten into trouble because of people taking advantage of me . I have a mental disability . I do not live on the street or thug life . I just stay home . As far as jobs go , I have many skills , I can not stand up for more than 30 minutes , the employers refuse to hire me because of my tics .