Advice needed urgently - about maintaining contact with a guy you're dating?

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I met this guy online who lives in a different European city (2 hours away). We really hit it off online, so I decided to meet to fly to their city - and we liked each other even more. They took the dating website, because we are trying to see where things would go between us. Its been about 5 months since we've seen each other. We chatted every day (without fail!) Per hour, literally, and I know and trust that he's not dating someone else - and I'm not dating anyone or MedlinePlus. MedlinePlus My problem is this: I'm the one who always calls him, because he knows that in my cell plan I can call you for free. Whenever he wanted to talk about was going to lose call me - and I call. And even when I have spent my free minutes, still call it (which means you end up paying for those calls). Hes working (and I am not at this time), so I told him to lose call me so that I know when to call for a chat, as I will not bother you at work. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I confronted him recently to ask why he can not call me from time to time on my cell phone for a change - and he says it's because he has no "free minutes" to call another mobile phone in Europe. But he explains that he can call me at my home phone for free. I basically explained that doenst even have free minutes, he could at least call me a couple of times - I mean I can not rip a hole in your wallet, I'm considering doing the same to call my cell phone even when "free minutes have been depleted." And I stress that I am even make calls paid to him, even though I'm not working at the moment. He then explains that unlike me, he has to pay loans, payment appropriations, bills etc. and has no money to pay for such calls. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus So my question is this: I have the impression that I'm not even worth spending a little money for a phone call - I'm being silly or what? If as an unemployed, I can call him why can not he call me? To be honest - I feel like I'm not worth the extra money you have to pay for calls to me. Am I exaggerating? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Hes a great guy -. I could not ask for a better man, and I really like it, but I think he feels the same for me, because he can not even do those simple phone calls MedlinePlus MedlinePlus As for ourselves, it keeps saying that I should come visit (however, seems reluctant to come see me here, I guess because I still live at home with my parents). But now I'm starting to think it's because the money. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Guys - please help - your opinion is needed on this. Cheers
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