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What do you think I can do to beat depression? Why do I keep feeling so worthless, helpless & hopeless?2payal2012-10-26 07:13:02
I got my BA in Spanish from August 2006 . Have not been able to find any work since. I feel very overwhelmed and stressed . When it comes to job hunting , avoiding applying because I 'm not good enough or that do not meet the requirements . Many jobs require you to have a valid driver's license , a car with good credit and insurance , all of which I have not. I feel that I have no skills or abilities . I'm not even fluent in Spanish yet! Instead of studying and practicing , I feel dejected, be sad . And when I try to study , I can not because my OCD unwanted thoughts , intrusive distraction. I always try too hard to do the best I could , but I give up easily and I feel like I'm wasting time . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I feel inferior to everyone, and even though I have 24 years , I still feel like a child . I feel so overwhelmed that I forget the obligations necessary , such as sending documents student deferment loan and so on . I really feel mentally disabled .
Anybody else feeling depressed and helpless? i need advice?6Beval2012-09-06 21:54:03
I have 27 years of age. I am an only child. When I was 17 and my dad was completely changed and moved on with their lives, not paying child support, do not worry about me or my mom anymore. At age 21 my mother died a short illness. I was / am still very traumatized. I have no siblings and his side of the family blamed me because they were angry with my father for what he did to my mother, so do not talk to my family. I am married to a great man, thank God ... He is what keeps me going. I have no connection with my family. My father is having a relationship with me, but it is false. No help with anything, when my mother died I was alone in dealing with the sale of your home, pack and all bills and funeral expenses. He was very careless and still, all he thinks about is himself. They were not officially divorced, separated only by how much ... of things that were in charge of your name too. My husband and I have a small landscaping business is not doing much business right now because of the economy. Fortunately, he has another job. I have no college education and the need for a job. I feel very depressed because I like to go to college, but the course you want to take does not offer student loan and I can not afford to have. Also, my dad keeps asking me when will I start taking the class and I'm still not saying what you can afford. (60k a year and lives with his father and has no bills, or think they would give me the 1500 to take the class?) It hurts me because I never did anything for me and knows I want to take this class, but I do not you can afford. While talking about buying a car yourself and take a vacation to Florida .... I feel so useless now, because my husband is the only one working, who have no health insurance .... I feel I have the weight of the world on my shoulders. I need advice .... a little help. It's very difficult to be forced to be out on his own at age 21 when his father died, I have no family / parents to use .. just my husband and me. Even though I have 27 years now I still feel like I was struggling emotionally to do things together ..
Anybody else feeling depressed and helpless? i need advice?0iew2012-11-05 12:25:16
I have 27 years of age. I'm an only child. When I was 17 my dad went and completely changed and moved on with his life, not paying child support, does not care about me or my mom anymore. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus At 21, my mother died of a brief illness. I was / am still very traumatized. I have no brothers and her side of the family placed blame on me because they were angry with my father for what he did to my mother, so I do not talk to my family. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I am married to a great man, thank God ... He is what keeps me going. I have no relationship with my family. My father tries to have a relationship with me, but it's false. It will not help with anything when my mother died, I was alone in dealing with the sale of your home, packaging and all costs and expenses of the funeral. He was very indifferent and still, all you think about is yourself. They were not officially divorced, separated only by how much ... of the things we were dealing with in their name too. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus My husband and I have a small landscaping business that business is not doing much right now because of the economy. Fortunately, he has another job. I have no college education and need a job. I feel very depressed because I would go to college, but the course you want to take no student loan and I just can not afford to take. Also, my father asks me when I'll start taking the class and I keep saying no you can afford. (60k a year ago and lives with her father and has no bills, or believe that we offer to give me the 1500 to take the class?) It hurts because he never did anything for me and knows I want to take this class, but I can not permit. As he speaks of himself buying a car and taking a vacation to Florida .... MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I feel so useless right now because my husband is the only one working, has no health insurance .... I feel like I have the weight of the world on my shoulders. I need some advice .... a little help. It is just very hard to be forced to be out on his own at 21 when his father died, I have no family / parent use .. it's just my husband and myself. Even though I have 27 now I still feel like I'm struggling emotionally to do things together ..
What can I do to stop feeling so hopeless?1darneta2012-11-03 22:41:01
For some time I have been feeling very depressed . When I was a kid , I was a tanning fit , and swam competitively . When I moved to the United States gradually lost my great body , and became very out of shape . In high school I did not look my best and that lead to self-esteem issues . Now I'm an unemployed college student with credit card bills up the wazoo and no money coming in. sent my student loans to cover my living expenses at all. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Every day I feel like taking my next source of income and instead pay the bills , I would buy a gun and shoot myself . I know the gun I want to buy and I went to the store that sells in my area and held it in his hand . I can not help but think that shooting myself is the only solution to what I feel , there's no other solution in sight . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus How I can get help for what I feel , being broke and unable to share this with someone close to me . ( obviously I do not want my family and friends to know that I feel well ) .
I'm so lost! Feeling utterly hopeless. Please - help.?1Toluene2012-09-09 08:33:04
So , like most Americans , I'm up to my eyeballs in debt. Car payments and insurance , gas , rent , health insurance , and school loans . For these reasons , I'm just very overwhelmed , but adds that the fact that Blaine just leave it six months ( and $ 7,000) because I realized that I never want to be a stylist . Not for me . Now what ? ! It's all I can think. Well , I love animals (much ) In the past I worked my way into the veterinary field , to become a technician . I never did certerfied so no money and now I'm thinking I should go to school for that. Although I never graduated from high school and do not have my GED and the thought of all that may have to do ( with the combination of not knowing what I have to do exactly ) to become sure my future is coming I with a feeling of helplessness . Please - anyone have any advice or encouragement ? I'd appreciate it . Thank you ! : (
Can I File a case against Citi Bank|Feeling helpless | My Account Was closed for no reason?0Ranch2012-09-30 14:28:02
Hi all, Thanks for your help and suggestions. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Here I would like to describe my plight. MedlinePlus There was an urgent and critical financial need so I took a personal loan urgently to meet my need and got deposited in my account. MedlinePlus when it comes to transfer money to my own parents, I found my username / password was no longer active. MedlinePlus SW I went to the ATM and the thought of withdrawing and transferring money through Core-banking (deposit money directly into the account of my father), but to my surprise, my ATM card did not work . Since no checkbooks, so I had no option left. MedlinePlus so I called customer service, and to my disbelief, said, my account is closed, my savings is zero, since I had done a project for my remaining amount and sent it to my e-mail. MedlinePlus i stepped the issue manager and he said that due to operational error, my account is closed. MedlinePlus and after two days of climbing, my account is activated. but I was told I can not use my ATM, as they are closed. MedlinePlus only options I have are MedlinePlus --------- To wait for my ATM card. MedlinePlus --------- I can not use the online facilities, as well as new bank is sending username / password MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Meanwhile, all post dated check I had given to others (as they have two loans) have rebounded. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus so for the last five days, I have access to my own hard earned money in such a critical situation. I am a salaried person. MedlinePlus My credibility is down so if my mood. MedlinePlus I'm still waiting for my ATM and username / password. MedlinePlus I have never felt so helpless in my life. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Please help. MedlinePlus I can claim compensation? Now? I can claim citizenship? MedlinePlus I approach the consumer court? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus please help. MedlinePlus Rakesh From New Delhi (India)
File a case against Citi Bank|Feeling helpless | My Account Was closed for no reason| Consumer court?0Mickaela HELP ME PLEASEEEE2012-08-21 15:52:02
Hi all, Thanks for your help and suggestions. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Here I would like to describe my plight. MedlinePlus There was an urgent and critical financial need so I took a personal loan urgently to meet my need and got deposited in my account. MedlinePlus when it comes to transfer money to my own parents, I found my username / password was no longer active. MedlinePlus SW I went to the ATM and the thought of withdrawing and transferring money through Core-banking (deposit money directly into the account of my father), but to my surprise, my ATM card did not work . Since no checkbooks, so I had no option left. MedlinePlus so I called customer service, and to my disbelief, said, my account is closed, my savings is zero, since I had done a project for my remaining amount and sent it to my e-mail. MedlinePlus i stepped the issue manager and he said that due to operational error, my account is closed. MedlinePlus and after two days of climbing, my account is activated. but I was told I can not use my ATM, as they are closed. MedlinePlus only options I have are MedlinePlus --------- To wait for my ATM card. MedlinePlus --------- I can not use the online facilities, as well as new bank is sending username / password MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Meanwhile, all post dated check I had given to others (as they have two loans) have rebounded. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus so for the last five days, I have access to my own hard earned money in such a critical situation. I am a salaried person. MedlinePlus My credibility is down so if my mood. MedlinePlus I'm still waiting for my ATM and username / password. MedlinePlus I have never felt so helpless in my life. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Please help. MedlinePlus I can claim compensation? Now? I can claim citizenship? MedlinePlus I approach consumer court? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus please help. MedlinePlus Rakesh From New Delhi (India)
Isn't it a GREAT feeling to beat the New World Order in one of their battles? ($700B bail out failure)?4justy2012-11-02 01:17:02
This was part of the great plan .. or Bush 41 "big idea" . To usher in the New World Order and the North American Union , the 'Elite ' need to remove the middle class ( the poorest do ) . Once deleted [ financial ] and can not get car loans, mortgages and student loans U.S. who ask to be involved in the emerging world socialized govt . It would be the " best alternative " 10-15 years --- Think outside --- MedlinePlus MedlinePlus This $ 700B bail out would have been a major achievement for the global elite . Is this proof that the American people can actually increase the superclass ? ... go hand and hand with those who are actually destroying our country ? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus My sources come from many research reports, including : MedlinePlus http://www.amazon.com/Superclass-Global-
What should I do w/a worthless boyfriend/roommate?8Izabella2012-10-26 03:03:02
We've been dating for two years and has never had a job (which is 23) . Retired or not most of his classes at school and play all day or occasionally want fast food or to go to a restaurant . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus His parents give an infinite amount of cash and adds to your problem . I said late last year that if he does w / something in your life , then we are again. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus He let me use his car (I hate buying gas) and sometimes loans me $ , but at one point I did not pay for his share of the bills for 2-3 months. He pays for food and gas. What should I do ?
WORTHLESS COLLEGE DEGREES... WHY?0prakriti2012-10-26 21:04:12
Why is it that most college graduates do not have anything substantial to offer ( _unless_ studying something specific , such as medicine, law , engineering , architecture , drafting , design , computer science , but students continue to choose and graduate with degrees relatively valueless though all know college graduates who have never earned a dime I can say that was a direct result of the time and money you have spent on your other so-called "education " ( Paid in most of the other parent . government grants , scholarships , student loans (most of which never get paid back ! )
I can't find a job and feel worthless. What can I do?2Taina2012-10-26 10:18:04
I recently graduated from a university really good, with a major in Psychology and minor in English. I tried and tried to find a job, but my lack of experience held me. Sorry to be a serious loser because I graduated from a university in the Ivy League with a 3.42 GPA and can not even get a job at a grocery store or a McDonalds (I've applied to hundreds of jobs and has two Pre-Screening Calls). I managed to get an unpaid internship but my student loans are due and I'm being threatened by loansharks who are trying to ruin my life before it starts. I still live at home with my parents, do not have a car or a driver's license, can not get a job, I have no boyfriend, I'm sterile, and have about $ 17 in my bank account that has been in two months with $ 8 , 95 "service fee". It's like everyone wants my money, but no one wants me. I hoped I was doing the "right" to go to an elite university and doing well, but it seems that was the biggest waste I've done. Also I have a medical condition that requires surgery, but has no money or adequate insurance coverage (not directly life threatening, but presents a serious problem for the quality of life). Sometimes I feel suicidal and that things will never get better. I heard that forgive loans for death. It would kill me, but it would be very sad if things got better the day he was buried. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I am a musician, writer and semi-professional and sometimes found self-employment and session but there's really no money in that. I've thought about graduate school in health, but I feel so exhausted and could not manage to come out with more debt and still not be able to get a job. Is this ever going to improve? What would you do in my place? I have no idea what to do now.
What to do with what appears to be 2 worthless college degrees?1Shane2012-10-03 15:25:02
I have hope that I have not any spam here . I finished my degree in social work a decade ago and it burned very quickly . I always knew I would never be rich but hoped to pay my bills and a BA does not cut it . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I went back to school to get my Masters in Public Administration with emphasis on planning . I was able to get a paid internship but has not resulted in a full-time job due to budgetary reasons . Now I've done a lot since then (domestic work wise ) it seems that there is . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Since the release on bail , the jobs have been scarce for many of us , but I do not even know where to apply . I have two college degrees , minimum experience in the field , living in a state I hate , and work at a job I can not stand . I have never left a job on bad terms , but on paper I look at a job hopper , even though most of my positions have been layoffs , eliminated positions , and short-term . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus On paper , just does not look right , I guess what I'm really looking for is suggestions of areas to look at the experience with a minimum of casualties . I do not want to do anything based sales or commission. I am willing to eat dirt if I have to. I just do not want to go back to school and take out more loans to be another dead end . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I hate living in fear . Thanks for reading all .

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