How can I learn to cope with being poor and feeling inferior to a rich friend?

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She has good intentions. A friend who is trying to be sure, but we are so different. I feel inferior to him and his perfection ravanous exhibition intended to call attention to their self-esteem. She is constantly offering gifts or shopping for gifts, or gift-giving. And her uncomfortable. Why do you think I need your gifts and congratulations. She likes to feel good about herself. But I do not wanna be your little "chartiy case" or "goodness project." Imagine every day at 11 am, calls me and says "so what's on? What is done" So thank God answer well, what you doing? Then she usually only repeats a few times "What, where are you doing"? I feel she is very pressing. Meaning of my daily preparations. I feel it's like pushing your way into my life, and trying to penetrate our personal business presence. I know she's waiting for me to say I need help with something. Even money, or a short-term loan, or I have enough to feed my family and wants to be a superhero. And I hate it. He wears a fur coat, and the most expensive clothes, $ 300 boots something, a designer does not know name. She lives in a big house, I always have a project or renovation going on. At this time your dining / rm LVG. With lamps and curtains and furniture reupholstered apply. Oh do not ask. She is a lady cleanign most days of the week. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I hate the rich. I had to dig in a charity box to take and borrow from $ 8 in quarters last night to send my daughter to the store to buy milk with garlic and a few apples. She was 10 cents short and the man made a fuss about when she is going to bring in. She was very embarrassed. Then every day I have to deal with this tense drama of this poodle called me "Yes, hows it going ... what is doing." I mean none of your business. LEAVE ME ALONE! MedlinePlus MedlinePlus She wants me to need. I'm not from these people. They own industries in China, fly there with their husbands "for a little vacation getaway." In fact, I found it funny or comic that took the pictures of the people and showed her firends farmer saying "Imagine ... see the hole in the ground? Well this is your bathroom." I felt like laughing at her. She's standing there in his first American lady attire stunnign white and beige suit with hair and perfectly stylish jewelry, shoes and purse in these people who are kind to people. I would have been embarrassed myself. but anyway, own lodges, and travel all the time flying or driving around and have these massive family get togethers and weddings, and when she wants to go shopping she just has to call his driver and fly by the city. I would be happy if I have the money for the bus, and then I usually do not even have the money to the store. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I do not know what you want from me? To be dependent on it? gifts have to ask or complain about my financial difficulties? So she can pay a few cents for me? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus You should not feel ashamed of being poor! I am not in need of her help! How I can deal with this person?
Answer1thumper09Answered at 2012-10-07 03:52:35
Maybe he just really cares about you and wants to help you. And since you have children , I swallow my pride and accept help.
Answer2nizarAnswered at 2012-10-09 21:34:49
Hey , I actually read the whole story and know how you feel because I am from a poor family . I think she just wanted to be friends . If I 'm rich like her , I bet you would like friends who are different from me ? You should have seen much about the fact that you are not sucking at her , using her, or asking for money from it despite the fact that you are in a different financial situation . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus What I do is, well , definitely not ask anything because that's not what I do, because I value my pride and I know exactly what you mean, " I'm not ashamed to be poor ! " Because you and I have no shame in being poor . MedlinePlus While you do not have to take anything from her, there's nothing wrong with sitting in a cafe with a friend and have an informal chat about life . Maybe you could tell him how you feel , but remember to chill because I do not want to offend or upset her because I think she is already trying very hard not to offend . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Well , if she offers to pay the bill , accept and thank him politely and offered to treat ATA tea somewhere less next time . You know , there's nothing wrong with making a friend who is very different from you ;) will be an eye opener
Answer3VeraAnswered at 2012-10-11 13:12:58
who cares . rich people suck
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