Should I ask him to sign an agreement?

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zodwa
Asked at 2012-09-29 00:33:03
My boyfriend and I have been together for six years. They lived together for three years. We lived in crappy apartments for 2 and a half years. We had been saving our money like crazy to buy a house. We were not 100% ready, but the night our landlord or the police did nothing about the drug addict losers upstairs bought a gun in front of the hotel we knew it was time to get out and get out fast. We called a real estate agent the next day not expect to find anything. But we found a house in 2004 that was for sale. Very close to his work. And closer to the hospital I wanted to work. We bought it. Before we could buy my boyfriend had a motorcycle accident. (A point of losing his foot, 2 ER, 2 surgery hospitals) We settled our mortgaged. We have moved. Later, to know when my boyfriend was ready to go to work to his boss called and said my boyfriend was fired. The next call was that someone messed up the paperwork for our mortgage lady was so interested in his court had lied about some information. The owner of the house knew and were taken in. He turned out to be a family friend of both our parents. So I set up a monthly payment. It came out of the bottom line (as rent to own), but we did not have many options. I started working two full time jobs. While he was looking for a job. He found one who said once he was at work during the three months to forward the loan launched again. In both of our names as we had for the first time. I worked two jobs part time full time January 1 to compensate for what the difference in his old job to your new working wage. Since then he also lost two weeks of work, when his father was at the time in the hospital and funeral. I had vacation time, so I still got paid for my time off to be with him and his family. Now his job is working for 3 months, so reapply. It is screwed again! They said it was in the short-term disability and unemployment, the credit was a great success. MedlinePlus But the good news is I was able to pay almost all my bills because I was working overtime for many. The first time I went to my application did not have much credit since I'm only 21 (22 now) loan representative called yesterday requesting the entire loan on my own! But my boyfriend is not on the loan unless I added later. (Much later I was told) MedlinePlus MedlinePlus We have always said that this is our home. I was really pushing for us to get married, but now I'm so glad I did not because our credit both would have been low. We would have lost our house and it has really been a problem. Now the loan is cast as just me. Everything in my name .... MedlinePlus I love my boyfriend and I know he would not leave. If I could afford to do it all myself. Is it wrong of me to sign a paper that a lease? I do not want to hurt his feelings either. I want to commit soon. With everything that happened there was no time. The money he was saving to pay my engagement ring and a wedding and honeymoon was to help his mother tugged until her parents left life insurance launched. And we helped pay for the funeral. MedlinePlus What should be my next step? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I was thinking something along the lines if he moves he pays me $ 200 a month for 6 months. Just so I can stay in my free. He also added that if they kill me before the house is going to marry him. And if we got married and then do not work out does not have to pay me anything, but the house is mine.
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