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Driving important in dating...Advice PLEASE?0rose - Ms. Sue2012-09-26 03:01:05
Unfortunately I could not afford to keep my car because I graduated from college nad now have to pay for things like health insurance which covers me and always plan my mother when I was in school ... I am also paying off my student loans , so I had to sell my car ... how important it is to have a car when you ask a girl ? That's a big turn off ? How can you get around having a car ? What are some ideas of how to address this and hat are some good places that you can go w / oa car? I'd appreciate any and all responses . Thank you !
How important is a car when you are dating...prefer to hear from women but will take all the advice I can get!2quinton2012-08-10 05:34:03
I do not feel right to ask a girl stole I have no car. I did not do anything stupid like a DUI or anything, just I can not afford it, becasue now that I graduated from college , I'm out of my mothers medical plan , so I have to pay for medical coverage and I'm paying my student loans , so it could pay for maintenance Mas , gas, to maintain care , insurance, etc. .. That's a big turn off for me a woman unable to offer a ride? Also, how I can ask out a girl without a car and what are some good places I can go ? I appreciate all the tips and if you could star this question I would appreciate further as more people may be willing to answer this question too. Thank you !
I need dating advice???? Please!!!!!?0Leagh2012-10-13 20:26:23
I'm dating a guy who is very sweet . Everything is fine , but I have my reservations about him . It's right out of college for the money is tight for him . It often seems as if he tries to take me to places that are free or selection of food is at a restaurant based on what I'm doing . They often end up paying . I'm out of school . I have a job , house, car , no debts or student loans . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I can not stop worrying about the future with him . ) . I've never dated anyone that had to offer both me and my wallet . In the back of my mind , I think of being the breadwinner and does not set well with me . I've even seen and frivolous shopping later in the day , I have no money for a planned activity . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus What should I do ?
Advice needed urgently - about maintaining contact with a guy you're dating?0SHAREEN2012-10-05 16:48:29
I met this guy online who lives in a different European city (2 hours away). We really hit it off online, so I decided to meet to fly to their city - and we liked each other even more. They took the dating website, because we are trying to see where things would go between us. Its been about 5 months since we've seen each other. We chatted every day (without fail!) Per hour, literally, and I know and trust that he's not dating someone else - and I'm not dating anyone or MedlinePlus. MedlinePlus My problem is this: I'm the one who always calls him, because he knows that in my cell plan I can call you for free. Whenever he wanted to talk about was going to lose call me - and I call. And even when I have spent my free minutes, still call it (which means you end up paying for those calls). Hes working (and I am not at this time), so I told him to lose call me so that I know when to call for a chat, as I will not bother you at work. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I confronted him recently to ask why he can not call me from time to time on my cell phone for a change - and he says it's because he has no "free minutes" to call another mobile phone in Europe. But he explains that he can call me at my home phone for free. I basically explained that doenst even have free minutes, he could at least call me a couple of times - I mean I can not rip a hole in your wallet, I'm considering doing the same to call my cell phone even when "free minutes have been depleted." And I stress that I am even make calls paid to him, even though I'm not working at the moment. He then explains that unlike me, he has to pay loans, payment appropriations, bills etc. and has no money to pay for such calls. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus So my question is this: I have the impression that I'm not even worth spending a little money for a phone call - I'm being silly or what? If as an unemployed, I can call him why can not he call me? To be honest - I feel like I'm not worth the extra money you have to pay for calls to me. Am I exaggerating? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Hes a great guy -. I could not ask for a better man, and I really like it, but I think he feels the same for me, because he can not even do those simple phone calls MedlinePlus MedlinePlus As for ourselves, it keeps saying that I should come visit (however, seems reluctant to come see me here, I guess because I still live at home with my parents). But now I'm starting to think it's because the money. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Guys - please help - your opinion is needed on this. Cheers
I need some very important advice.?0Mande2012-08-17 09:13:07
I have a very low credit score of 541. I have a lot of collections on my credit report. no credit cards , loans or anything like that. I was young and not realizing what he was doing to my credit. addition to medical bills ( no insurance ) , he might pay the rest out in a few years? I do not know what to do. I feel like I am a failure and will never have anything in life. different collection agency there is so many do not know if I could keep up with the payment of all or what goes where and when. Should I consolidate or what. Is it too late? please help if you can
My mother is trying to control my relationship and is driving me crazy NEED ADVICE ASAP!?0selma2012-08-19 14:10:28
My mother and I are not very close to it gives me tips for school work, but now lately has been trying to get in my business relationship with my SO and going crazy. I do not know what to do now live with her for the fact that I lost my job and got into a car accident, so I'm home more. and she wants to know every detail what is going on with me and my man can not stand the fact that I'm happy. She has control issues and always try to control everything in my life, but I told him when it comes to my personal life has to step back and let me learn for myself. I do not mind her talking about other things, but my personal life is sacred to me something I do causthat'sts heart and she is starting to realize that it is so cheap to call me and broke. I told my SO is to get a credit card today because I was getting this credit card in the mail and it just came to him came to the house several times before especially now that I just got out of a car accident and I'm stuck at home more often. So I said about it is that she knows a lot about credit cards began to criticize my SO to pay his school, his pocket saying he should take a loan instead. note that has had a loan for his first degree in architecture and now he is making his second anddoesn'tesnt Computers wants to get another loan again would rather do it that way. Now she is telling why tthat'shats is broken and why should bummy when driving a car could be something else. And I'm looking and saying why. You're talking shit about my man I wish my school paid cash I piled in student debt. She got so angry and started yelling at me saying all kinds of things saying that she knows I'm not happy and I try to say things that break us. Well me and my SO had a situation where I had to pay for a movie ticket was low on cash when he was dating my sister and my friend and I said that I pay and I was not working but this was a week After I lost my job, so I paid the money I had, but I was furious that made my sisters and told them that I was angry and would not take that because it was rude to do so knowing that my situaiton. and told me So how I felt about it and apologized because I thought my sister was going to pay for me as it was the original plan just tagged along that night. My birthday was the week before that and I was out of town for my birthday weekend so the weekend after he was broke when we went to the movies and I understand, but I told him that I had had reported he was short of cash because i would not be so angry and at least I would have understood. since that day, which was in October my mom keeps mentioning that situation and talking shit about him and I as we reached an understanding and it worked, why bring back old drama. Its driving me crazy i almost hurt and do not know what to do with time, while im stuck here for now. Any tips on how to keep the mother of my business with my man.
My job search is driving me nuts. Life-wise, I feel hopeless. I could really use some good advice.?0Jena2012-11-04 11:32:03
I screwed up, royally. I've put in a rough situation I am having trouble finding a way out, and I need an outside perspective and advice. I have mild cp, I have 34, has recently been through Chapter 7, and my car was repo'd last year. In the last three years, I have been working at least part time. wage job for a sporting goods store. Apart from the salary of shit, it's a good job with good people, but it is killing my knees, literally. They have been getting worse in recent months and still feel like they are going to give me. I have no insurance (through work or otherwise because of my financial situation), so I can not see a doctor for it. I tried to get an upgrade, but like all other jobs I've worked, I see as uncapable to meet the needs of jobs. I'm also trying to get to college to get a degree in computer science. My average was too low for my college experience past and refused my loan fafsa. So I have to be paying for it for cash, which I also found to be difficult due to finances. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I thought about applying SSD, but I have not seen a doctor for any of my health problems since I was 18 because they could not do anything for me at the time. So I doubt that qualify for SSD medical unsigned. And now I want to see a doctor, is that you can afford. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus So I know I need a new job, there is no way around it. But the more I look, the more I'm going to have a hard time finding something that suits my physical needs. Among the bad knees, arthritis in hands, muscle spasms and chronic chronic fatigue, I can not seem to find a job that I feel will fit. I can not stand the customer service, it is too laborious. And most of the jobs I'm seeing in my class education (secondary education) seems to require physical strength, endurance and decent health (none of which I have more). Other jobs like admin / clerical job requires finger dexterity fast good writing skills. I've tried and no sales before that, and not the supervisory job. Heck, even my family tells me not to make a good supervisor. I even thought of "work at home" jobs, but they all scams seem important to me. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I feel like crap right now. I'm not sure what kind of job suits my physical needs. The more I try, the more depressed I can. Even I'm starting to feel (not much, just a little) sometimes suicidal. I do not know what else to do. I have to find a job before I do something completely stupid and assanine. I am at my wits end here. I can not seem to find a way out of this dark hole that I put. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Does anyone have any ideas that can help me?
Should I keep dating this guy?0JM2012-09-16 06:53:04
I met my boyfriend on a dating website online a little more than four months . back . At first spent time with me and we both visited . We live an hour apart . Also at the beginning we had a lot in common and have fun . We both said to each other was perfect for another . He then obtained a loan that had been waiting to do a lot of work at home . Since then he has spent much time with me . Also in the beginning we texted each evening long . Now we text , but only if it is free or want . Never just talk on the phone , but I do not really want . I have a son that he is good with . Should I wait to see how things go ? I'm really annoyed by all the time that has been going on with me . He says he really likes me . he says he wants me to move closer, but I'm not willing to do that yet . tell me your honest opinion. I am also unsure , so I think I put too much pressure on him to get what he wants it to feel safe . not very affectionate . he says it's not fair , but he does like me a lot. What should I do ?
Our son is dating a loser. What should we do?3Ashyleah2012-10-24 13:16:04
Our son is dating a girl who treats him badly . She picks fights with him constantly . She is very insecure and gets jealous when we go out to dinner with the family (she will call every five minutes) . She was angry with our son when he bought a car ( why bother any of us are unsure ) . She is angry with him constantly . She and her mother spend tons of money on it and can not even fix the broken toilet at home . She has significant debt and not even graduated college ( with student loan money to vacation) , and in general is a bad influence on our son . She is his first serious girlfriend and you're talking about marrying her . Caramba ! What can we say to him to convince him that he is doing a poor choice of partners ?
Is this guy worth dating? ?5Amaris2012-10-02 06:10:04
- Below average looks MedlinePlus - Excessive body hair ( back, chest , etc ) MedlinePlus - Outbound ( has a lot of friends) MedlinePlus - Fun MedlinePlus - really smart ( has several advanced degrees , including a master of Brown ) MedlinePlus - Have a successful career with a bright future MedlinePlus - No medical problems MedlinePlus - Have good credit and your own apartment and car ( no debt other than a couple of thousands of student loans )
Dating ettiquette? Who should pay?3moises2012-10-19 05:04:03
I've always been brought up to believe that it is man who must provide / pay for everything and , of course , I have met a lot of people along the way who opposed . I can understand their point of view of it and have been in relationships where they offer to pay for things here and there , but my question is what if the man makes more money ? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus My personal situation is that I am a college student who works and has bills to pay . Mechanical Engineer with a Master 's , paid loans , car paid off , and rents a room in someone's house . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Am I wrong for thinking he should pay most of the costs ? Once again , here and there mind paying (drinks , movie tickets , other small expenses ) and I never asked him to take me to places ridiculously expensive .
Help! Our son is dating a loser!?1Saadiq2012-08-24 05:57:04
Our son is dating a girl who treats him badly. She picks fights with him constantly. She is very insecure and jealous when we go to family dinners (which will be called every five minutes). She was angry with our son when he bought a car ( why bother any of us is safe). She is angry with him constantly. She and her mother spend tons of money on it and you can not even fix the broken toilet at home. She has significant debt and not even graduated college (with student loan money to vacation) , and is generally a bad influence on our son. She is his first serious girlfriend and is already talking about marrying her. Wow ! What can we say to convince him he is making a bad choice of partners ?

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