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Wife filed divorce papers served?1Ronnie2012-10-21 10:30:03
Ok my wife has filed for divorce and served me papers. I have no $ 3,500.00 to hire a lawyer. He left a 5000.00 retainer fee. Now he says he wants a divorce is uncontested if we can agree on things together. She said her attorney told her that I would pay $ 350 a month to support husband and I would pay $ 225 in child support, but she is opting out of the child support if I do not participate and do not ask for support spouce. She said that cancel each told. We have two boysages 12 and 6. I make a tear 25000 and 55,000 a year ago. EU would also like to try to live together and keep going, or children, but not tell you how long.We along great as friends, but she wants sex and marriage broken by divorce. I have 51 and she is 42. I know no other man. She is not happy and we fought a lot about sex and money. So far we Benn able to agree on the terms of paying the bills and house payments. Now I can afford to 1000.00 house payment and she paid me 2500.00 and pays most of the bills, but it helps if I'm behind them. We split the cost of food. I just need to know if I should ask for spouse support and custody? She is very much against this. I think I could afford a two bedroom house or apartment anyway so my children every day six months at a time. Could I ask for custody instead of 50 percent? If we live together after the divorce may be only for a short time maybe two years to recover the property or home before selling. I love my house and does. Will be awarded 50 percent of their 401k she says his lawyer says. She has 35,000 on it. Will this be paid if we still live in the same house after divorce? We also have a boat and camper who wants to sell and use the money to repay their loans? I said I will have to split the money after selling or letting'll keep the trailer and I will keep the boat. If I have a lawyer can she be awarded the boat and trailer and not give half of your 401k? I just do not have the money to get a lawyer. She used her credit card. We have separate accounts long ago, when she moved with the children one year ago but has now moved back home and is now filling the divorce. I need very good advice. I love to live as friends, because all landfills is gone, but we get along great as friends and mom and dad. And no one is bringing home women or men if we agree on it and you just say and respect each other and the family ....
His ex wife refuses to follow through on what the divorce papers say and?2shain2012-10-24 23:39:02
I have a big problem with this MedlinePlus . They divorced in 05 , were married on February 07, when a car financed together I found out that your ex never refinanced the car that got in the divorce , so my husband's name is still on the car loan . It also closed a credit card , but later reopened and charged over $ 2,000.00 in him, and his name appears on the credit card . MedlinePlus He says that I am over reacting and I should not
Got served papers for not paying car but turned it in already a few months late on payment What happens?1charlisco2012-09-24 08:35:03
Friend was served because he could not pay his loan car note however turned the car already. What happens ? MedlinePlus Ok , so basically my friend got a bank loan for a new car . However, he lost his job and could not pay the bill more . So I still kept the car without having to pay for a few months later . Then finally resulted in the car but still got served papers . What usually happens in court over this?
House in middle of mortgage remodification and is being served papers to be condemned.?0Ameen2012-11-05 21:02:56
my father inlaws house is currently in the middle of a loan modification for a $11,000 remaining of the loan. Now the county is trying to condemn it What can we do. we do not have the money to fix all the repairs. It is a historical house from the late 1890's but the county wont put it in the historical listings so we could get a grant to fix it back up. It is not that bad, it needs a new roof for the most of the repairs and the wood siding in a small section needs replaced. (we have that). please help.
I just recently filed for divorce from my husband and he does not want the divorce. He has not been abusive?1Avalon2012-09-11 13:53:05
We have simply grown apart and I'm terribly unhappy . We had a small business are carried by the current economic conditions and am simply asking that divide our debts in half and let you walk with your 401k , full retirement and full social security . He has worked for the same company for almost 20 years and has accumulated a considerable amount . All I'm asking is to keep the house that has little or no capital for children to stay home . I have not asked to pay anything for the house payment and have requested NO allimony and have requested that the pension is the minimum allowed. He is very angry and is an emotional wreck and I fear I may have a nervous breakdown . He says if we split that is "broken " and simply leave their jobs and give up their portion of the debt that was in both our names . I can not refinance the house and I know that if I were to miss payments this could damage your credit , but my fear is that they simply quit his job and not pay their share of the debt and the creditors come after me . I honestly believe that the mood is in it stopped working and does not care what happens to his credit . He's been in a very stressful job that wanted to make for years , but in order to pay the debts that will have to maintain it. What if you do not pay your share ? Loans are both of our names and told me that if he loses since we entered together debt we remain both responsible
I just recently filed for divorce from my husband and he does not want the divorce. He has not been abusive?3mcintosh2012-11-05 11:10:05
me or our children . We have simply grown apart and I'm terribly unhappy . We had a small business are carried by the current economic conditions and am simply asking that divide our debts in half and let you walk with your 401k , full retirement and full social security . He has worked for the same company for almost 20 years and has accumulated a considerable amount . All I'm asking is to keep the house that has little or no capital for children to stay home . I have not asked to pay anything for the house payment and have requested NO allimony and have requested that the pension is the minimum allowed. He is very angry and is an emotional wreck and I fear I may have a nervous breakdown . He says if we split that is "broken " and simply leave their jobs and give up their portion of the debt that was in both our names . I can not refinance the house and I know that if I were to miss payments this could damage your credit , but my fear is that they simply quit his job and not pay their share of the debt and the creditors come after me . I honestly believe that the mood is in it stopped working and does not care what happens to his credit . He's been in a very stressful job that wanted to make for years , but in order to pay the debts that will have to maintain it. What if you do not pay your share ? Loans are both of our names and told me that if he loses since we entered together debt we remain both responsible .
Post-Divorce Legal Question, How to make ex wife comply with the terms in the Divorce Decree.?6Ronasia Mcbride2012-10-03 04:13:01
Recetly 'm divorced, the divorce terms give responsbility sole support of your car and your loan. However, she will not refinance the loan, so it remains on my credit. She already was 90 days late with a number of payments, and continueing to hurt my credit card. What should I do ? State : Texas State of divorce : Completed Loan Type : Vehicle
Where do I get the papers to modify my divorce decree?1APA - In text referencing.2012-10-17 03:31:02
In my divorce , my ex husband has the car and the car loan in the divorce decree . It's been over a year and the car is still registered under my name and my name is on the loan . I can not get my name off the loan without him refinance or pay it off . I'm getting traffic tickets violation of what the car is doing . I want to change my decree of court order he has to do these things because I've been begging him all this time to do it . I want a new car loan with my credit , it looks like you have too much financial obligation . I called the courthouse and the lady told me I had to pay for another divorce and send a money order and ways to modify the decree , but when I asked where to get these forms are said to find out myself. Please help me I'm so tired of this I am a full time student and I can afford a lawyer , but it would be extremely inconvenient . thank you
How do I write up divorce papers regarding loan repayment?1hye2012-10-14 20:57:02
My ex and I consolidate our loans college several years ago. We are now divorced , but none of us have lawyers . The loans in your name even though most only accumulated debt . We are splitting the loan debt 50-50. He is unemployed and apparently will stay that way . How I can write until I pay 50 % of the debt now without a) getting charged interest only on what you probably will not pay , b ) pay the dept . of ed . and not him ( because he never sent the money ) and c ) may not always be responsible for the other 50 % ?
Car was repoed after divorce...they are serving papers, can they take me to jail?5lucas2012-10-02 02:44:03
Ok long story. Negative responses and only ask people who have had this happen recently there at age 12 . My 2006 Ford Escape was laid two years ago and the credit union had my loan through my loan has sent a debt collector / lawyer ' s office. They said they are trying to scare me in creating payment arrangements. I have not signed anything and have not appeared in court . I have never been summoned to the royal court . Are you trying to scare me or you can take me to jail . ? ? I would not get stopped for speeding or something and find out I have a warrant . ( was deposited after a bad divorce and not make enough to pay the rent , plus new vehicle. )
Filing California Divorce papers, if we can not agree on 50/50 split, what are my choices ?3Evangelise2012-10-16 04:46:02
Married 18 years , separated for the last 3 years and now filing divorce papers in California. We have a house , stocks, retirement funds and bank accounts. We agree that children live with their mom, and I agree to the visitation schedule . Wife wants the house for herself and children. But what gets in the equity of the house is 160K more than all the other property I own (retirement, stocks, bank accounts ). She says I have to support your child , since she already has the dollars to the house. But even after that, she has about 100K more in your cube. She does not have the cash and can not get a loan to pay me, so it can be even . So , what are my options ? Should I file the divorce papers and let the judge tell us how to make the division 50/50 ? Pros and cons ?
Married 8 months separated 6 now. She filed for annulment I responded with divorce.. Please help!!!!?2word fits for a king2012-11-02 05:36:02
My wife was married for 8 months and separated for 7 months now submitted an application for annulment or dissolution of marriage and property .. I replied --- I want a divorce and my Honda Odyssey 2011, I had to put his name while funding. I hung up and can result in $ $ 32,000.00 down. I had to finance the remaining $ 10,000.00 in his name, because my credit was bad and I did not have a valid license at the time. I put another $ 30,000.00 on your house and do not mind any of that which also I have proof. Your response to my divorce was --- Assets shown are nonexistent except for the Honda Odyssey 2011, which was a gift given to him for Christmas 2010. She says she wants to be his, because it was a gift and she is the only person in the car loan. Also its the only vehicle you have to transport their children. What is wrong --- I have a Ford Expedition 2001 still sitting in my driveway that the judge gave me temporary custody after filing a restraining order for 6 months. She said in her slow who sold me his only reliable means of transportation that has done with his knowledge .... Can someone please help me .. My court date is 23 this month .. Thanks Oh ya, and the money used to pay all that was mine before we married .. Alimony? We were married only 8 months .. The only income I have is of a structured settlement monthly bill of a car accident when I was a child .. She has 6 children from 3 different fathers .. I should not have to pay alimony. She has a fully loaded vehicle ford 2001 that's being in my way. Taking into account all their children The Ford 2001 is in her name, she got it from her last divorce. She told the judge that no other vehicle .. What is a blatant lie. PLEASE HELP

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