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How can I apologize and salvage this friendship?1Slaysliver2012-11-02 03:02:01
I stole money from my best friend - MedlinePlus How do I tell? We've been best friends for five years, lived together for two years. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I do not know what came over me. MedlinePlus I was short of rent money, and I knew that she had recently received a large loan for school. MedlinePlus I was struggling to get the income to my home, and when it was $ 120 short saw your credit card on the counter. I took it, went to the ATM at our house, took the money and returned the card to the counter. She had given me his time PIN many different things over the years. It seemed so easy and brainless. I put it out of my mind and went about my business. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I am a student, my own loans are spent and I have a job. I usually do not know where I get get money from next. MedlinePlus I could have borrowed the cash, I could have asked for cash family, but none of those would mean I would have to admit that I am a loser who can not pay the rent. Pathetic me, either way. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Here's where it really went off the deep-end: I did it again yesterday. I was broke, credit card minimum payment and the Internet account ahead. I took his card, took out cash, returned and made dinner. Once again, out of mind. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Now, she has noticed. He saw the amounts and immediately called the bank. They said, "Hey, this does not look like fraud. You've probably been scammed by a friend or roommate. We'll let you know in two weeks." She did not believe him, and believes he was defrauded. I was so scared that I sat there and let her talk to the bank, ensuring that it is not the end of the world (you feel like throwing up.) MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I'm sure I will say they can not do anything about it, and I'm not worried about being caught. I know this bank well - she said it was fraud and she can go to the police if she wants, and will not because she hates MedlinePlus such problems. MedlinePlus I'm so fucking sick of this, I am shaking as I write. What really worried about is losing my best friend, the best person I know. MedlinePlus She has said in recent years, "I hold grudges -. If I lose confidence, do not hesitate to let people in my life" I'm terrified of her face, as terrified as I am now faced with the fact that I am a friend horrible. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I can not believe I ruined all my friends for $ 220. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have all the money to pay her back in cash in my wallet. I'll tell you, they approach it with money in hand, explaining that he needed more rent and did their best to get murky. She is going to have questions about the whole thing, and I have no honest answers. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus EVEN STARTED HOW TO DO THIS? We've been sitting around the house all day, I'm just terrified that as soon as you have this conversation, there is a chance I will be saying goodbye to not only their friendship, but probably also other friends. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have to try my best to save it. Really, my life will be a mess if you can not forgive. MedlinePlus What do not you like to hear? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus "I have to clarify something, I have done the stupidest, most Low.-describe-I do not expect you to agree with this, I do not know if there is anything I can do to make this right. I only know that I am sick did this to all people, and realize it could be something I'm regretting for a long time. "
I'd like to apologize , (was pretty mean to people on online games)?0rhox anne2012-09-25 07:26:03
I was kind of pulling in the online games are not as bad as others , but still pretty bad . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus So I would say sory if I hurt you somehow a I regret being a bad human being , and I've seen the light ( the Almighty ) . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus my names were MedlinePlus MedlinePlus SS_DasReich - . Im not going to say it was very addictive game becuae MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Loan_wolf - . Dido ^ I know it's lonely at the time did not know MedlinePlus MedlinePlus SS_Angelofdeath - somehing like that know me know I was a vain person MedlinePlus empty . MedlinePlus Lycaon_thethird - dido not going to say that game was very addictive because I do not want anyone but him as if MedlinePlus addiced . MedlinePlus Now I know that even though seemned hapy play those games that never really was, I let myself become a very selfish person , a bit of an idiot and was vain and empty . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Not to mention a big waste of time . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Its not worth playing PC games online you have no "fruit " , but help people one being a good human being does! MedlinePlus Plus it makes you happy !
Friendship: Keep Or Not To Keep?2Redale2012-10-25 08:14:48
I have a friend who is constantly in financial trouble. My friend works two jobs and receives a check gov. In other words, my friend has more money than most people and like many debts, child support, car payments, mortg, etc. .. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Well, I paid my money friend. Now, I need it. At the time of the loan, I told my friend to pay when you can. My friend said he was going to pay it back in two weeks. More than a week, I contacted my friend for reimbursement. Well, my friend said he would pay me money. The day I was to be returned, my friend called me and said he could not do it and gave me several reasons. My friend also said I owed money they forgot that I have serious doubts. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus A little history about friendship: We were roommates in college about 15 years ago and lived together for several months and spoke for a few years later, after I moved. I have not talked to my friend about a year ago, simply because our paths went their separate ways. Last year after our reconnection, my friend never bought anything for me. I bought a couple of meals for us at least a handful of times. I even paid for the gas for my friend at least once. Also, my parents hired my friend to do a job for them at my request. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus My questions:. My feelings are mixed with my friend MedlinePlus Should I consider that I can not get my money back? MedlinePlus Should I let our friendship? MedlinePlus Should I accept that my friend can be a playboy and always broken? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I do not know if I want to remain friends. My heart is broken at the thought of losing my friend. If only it were someone else, I drop them as a friend and consider the money lost. Lesson learned. For me, it's not as much about money as it is respect.
Did sex ruin my friendship?0naz2012-09-08 07:06:02
I'll give a little history here, so bare with me. A few years ago I had a close friend who was everything to me. The friendship ended and I never thought I could be so close to someone like that again. I have had many superficial friendships that have come and gone, but never anything that became meaningful friendship. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I recently met a girl at work, and when I first saw it I thought it was as Lilith on Cheers, a little cold and such. After getting to know her, I realized that was really great, and I liked it. One night after work invited me for drinks, we ended up at my place. She told me that my shirts did think I was in the heavy metal and was in it, so I had to get to know me. After talking for a couple of hours, I said it was like we were destined to meet. I have to admit that I have never met anyone who got along with well, other than my old friend, and we had much more in common. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus After knowing each other for two months, I am amazed at how much we have in common and our personalities just mesh completely. However, recently learned that she lost potential place to live here, and decided to return to the city, which is a ferry ride away. After his weekend trip to the city, he called and she did not seem very happy to hear from me. I have no idea why, but I have only a bad conversation, but there's nothing wrong that was said to me. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I tried to think of why she would be so, and even went online to find out what they could have done to put out so much. One was sticky, but I have been calling a lot, talk to her once every 3 or 4 days. Being a user, but I've been kind to her, paying money as she has been having problems with that, since his job has cut your hours. By the way, I offered, she did not ask me anything. It seems to be honest and straightforward with each other, as we said to each other things about ourselves that we would not tell anyone. And we have been supportive and caring towards others. She even cooked for me, and that man can cook! MedlinePlus MedlinePlus All I can think is that she is in a relationship for years 1 1/2 to a guy who says he loves, and she and I ended up having sex a couple of times. She was always doing the moves on me, and we always said that we would remain friends. She told me a week ago that he could not do that to her boyfriend and I agree, although I'm confused by what she told me never deceived anyone before, except once with a man who knew he was breaking. So I guess I'm something odd about this. After that seemed fine, but I get the feeling after seeing her boyfriend in the city feel guilty for us and everything. I'm not sure, could be the stress of losing their place as soon before going too. Not. She means a lot to me, a moment I wish we had never done anything to get started! I do not know what I should say if I get the chance. HELP!
Hes throwing our friendship away for a girl hes just met what shall i do ?0kelie2012-10-02 08:44:03
I need advice on how this sounds . im close friends with a guy and 8 weeks ago he met a girl online, I think they've met but hes lied to me and told me that she is from England , stays with him , etc. . the other day I was asked to send an e - mail to him and saw an email he wrote . send a lot of emails and text each other always saying I love you ( who denied that he loves her ? ) now ive discovered shes not even here ! shes complaining of not eating and they need money for drugs and hes sent
At what point in a friendship is it okay to ask your friend for a cash loan?0NELLIE2012-09-26 19:17:04
A few days later they met ? MedlinePlus After several meetings to get it? Years and years of friendship ?
Questions about purchasing a salvage car?2t.c2012-09-09 01:20:02
The car I'm trying to achieve is a 1997 Honda Civic $ 3000 MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have not spoken with the owner , but once they do, what specific questions I should ask ? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Will something bad happen to me or make me look bad ? Job- wise? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus If they say that I get the car , and I try to find a car insurance , I'll be waiting for the high amount payments ? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus The car is registered in my name and leave me a hard time? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Off -topic question : I've been building my credit by paying my bills for about 4 months, the bank will allow me to get a car loan for $ 3,000 ?
Car loan question? salvage?1JL2012-08-16 18:46:03
OK I want to buy a Scion tC 2005-2008 by about $ 8,000 or less, but the only ones who are meeting in cicraigslist salvage title ! ! I do not think the credit union will give me a cousin of the loan salavge I am right? ?
Should i buy a salvage title vehicle?3math2012-08-09 02:54:42
So here is my dilemma Right now I have a Cadillac 04 with less than 70K miles I've had enough for one year and already need major repairs . Is warranted but are still inexpensive and do a " quick fix" basically until my warranty runs out, so I want my car to a dealer once its fixed , because I have a loan on the vehicle follows. So I have a lot of money and I have gone through almost all the vehicles available and my only hope is to get as a 2002 maybe a 2003 if I'm lucky with 70K + miles on it .... my budget is only 8k and I would have to obtain another loan to help pay for this new vehicle ... a friend of the family has a convenience store / repair salvage titles and maybe I could agree with them ... so what's better to buy an older car with high mileage or a new car with low mileage and a salvage title Also I'm not worried about whether or not my insurance cover it and I called and checked.
*Scion Tc* Approval of loan for a auction car with CLEAN or SALVAGE title?2Please help me!!!!!2012-10-15 01:11:02
Self in crisis now .. I bought a 1995 Nissan Altima GXE when I was 16 for $ 1,100, to 110,000 miles salvage title in auction.Been lucky not receive any problems with the car until now 4 years later the age of 20! . Heres a pic from my CarDomain page Chttp :/ / memimage.cardomain.com/member_images/2/web/2666000-2666999/2666360_13.jpg ( I added wheels / lights) MedlinePlus MedlinePlus ANYWHO.I mind buying another car salvage title, that's really what I wanted to do , because their good deals out there you just have to be very careful and inspect the car .. Unfortunately IAM VERY BROKE .. I have not saved any money at all ( just started today) and I was wondering if maybe I can go to the auction with a minimum of 2,000 to get a loan for 5,000 ( state credit union I am with the 4 years ) I can leave with something nice ... maybe my dream car the 2005-2008 Scion Tc black cherry pearl , white, blue or silver . Or maybe a Honda Accord 2003-2005 O lol 2005-07 Acura Integra RS
When will the Capitalist Corporations and Banks step up to help salvage the American Economy?3jaydee2012-09-23 06:41:03
Why not help U.S. companies by reducing their CEO pay 75 % so they can recruit hundreds of thousands of Americans ? Why not U.S. companies closed their plants in China, bring jobs back to America ? Why is the bank lending the money to the thousands of Americans struggling small business owners ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? Why the titans of capitalism and workers hate U.S. so much? ? ? Why does it seem as if his love of greed is much greater than his love of country ? Companies are in collusion with his friends in the banking sector to kill small business in America? Why conservatives believe it is better to preserve the ability of a CEO to buy a mansion and a new Ferrari this year to reduce their salary to the company may hire 100 Americans who would be happy just to be able to put food on the table for your family? When capitalism is going to step up and help fix the economy that broke? Do you love and trust Obama to do it for them ? That should be! !
Recently purchased car with salvage title.the transmission does not shift & odometer is not working.?0bobo2012-09-27 19:59:03
I knew the car had been wrecked on the passenger side.I thought that was the reason title.When rescue car came through auto carrier the other problems that came to reality.I took a bank loan on a car I can not drive at all. Do I have the right to request my money for "undisclosed " information ?

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