How can I apologize and salvage this friendship?

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Slaysliver
Asked at 2012-09-21 23:05:03
I stole money from my best friend - MedlinePlus How do I tell? We've been best friends for five years, lived together for two years. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I do not know what came over me. MedlinePlus I was short of rent money, and I knew that she had recently received a large loan for school. MedlinePlus I was struggling to get the income to my home, and when it was $ 120 short saw your credit card on the counter. I took it, went to the ATM at our house, took the money and returned the card to the counter. She had given me his time PIN many different things over the years. It seemed so easy and brainless. I put it out of my mind and went about my business. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I am a student, my own loans are spent and I have a job. I usually do not know where I get get money from next. MedlinePlus I could have borrowed the cash, I could have asked for cash family, but none of those would mean I would have to admit that I am a loser who can not pay the rent. Pathetic me, either way. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Here's where it really went off the deep-end: I did it again yesterday. I was broke, credit card minimum payment and the Internet account ahead. I took his card, took out cash, returned and made dinner. Once again, out of mind. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Now, she has noticed. He saw the amounts and immediately called the bank. They said, "Hey, this does not look like fraud. You've probably been scammed by a friend or roommate. We'll let you know in two weeks." She did not believe him, and believes he was defrauded. I was so scared that I sat there and let her talk to the bank, ensuring that it is not the end of the world (you feel like throwing up.) MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I'm sure I will say they can not do anything about it, and I'm not worried about being caught. I know this bank well - she said it was fraud and she can go to the police if she wants, and will not because she hates MedlinePlus such problems. MedlinePlus I'm so fucking sick of this, I am shaking as I write. What really worried about is losing my best friend, the best person I know. MedlinePlus She has said in recent years, "I hold grudges -. If I lose confidence, do not hesitate to let people in my life" I'm terrified of her face, as terrified as I am now faced with the fact that I am a friend horrible. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I can not believe I ruined all my friends for $ 220. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have all the money to pay her back in cash in my wallet. I'll tell you, they approach it with money in hand, explaining that he needed more rent and did their best to get murky. She is going to have questions about the whole thing, and I have no honest answers. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus EVEN STARTED HOW TO DO THIS? We've been sitting around the house all day, I'm just terrified that as soon as you have this conversation, there is a chance I will be saying goodbye to not only their friendship, but probably also other friends. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have to try my best to save it. Really, my life will be a mess if you can not forgive. MedlinePlus What do not you like to hear? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus "I have to clarify something, I have done the stupidest, most Low.-describe-I do not expect you to agree with this, I do not know if there is anything I can do to make this right. I only know that I am sick did this to all people, and realize it could be something I'm regretting for a long time. "
Answer1SourdeeAnswered at 2012-11-02 03:01:03
hmmm... It was wrong on your part to have stolen your best friend's money. I guess you have done a grave mistake. Yes, of course, you must go and apologize to her, even if she doesn't forgive you, you should do so. Else, the rest of your life you would be sad thinking about this incident. She will of course, be angry at you, even hit you with something, or even say some harsh words, but if she is really your best friend, she might forgive you if you promise not to do such an act ever again. Anyways, apologize to her as fast as you can.
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