How can I get my fiance to contribute? (10 points for best answer...Long)?

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Jabaar
Asked at 2012-09-09 01:14:03
My FH assistance planning , and constantly told me how much he expects to our wedding , and I'm his wife . We're getting married in about eight months. He had some financial setbacks :
MedlinePlus The company he worked for went out of business and took a month to go ahead with a company knew that our area has few employment opportunities . MedlinePlus He had problems with the car , which had a good amount of money . MedlinePlus He has student loans being paid back , and is almost finished with the payment . MedlinePlus I bought a car ( not new , but very nice) . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus etc. MedlinePlus Because these sets of backs , still have to save money for the wedding . He promises that he will have his half ( $ 3,000 ) , and I said at the beginning of our commitment to come with him to have money taken form his savings account to put on the wedding. There has been , and he said today at least ask the more he wants to do it ( not the wedding , but the savings ) . He told me to keep after him about it , now is not. He told me that I do not trust him . I know it has
Answer1RitshaAnswered at 2012-09-09 08:37:03
I suggest you talk to him about it one last time and only once. Sit down with him and say he is confident that will keep money in your account and it does not bother you again. Then do not! My fiance and I had a little trouble with this because I do not feel like I was saving nothing. So one day he said : " I hope that comes through our wedding and that is important to you . " Then I dropped . Since then he has been saving on their own. It is much easier to do something when someone is not bothering about . Have fun planning , congratulations on the upcoming wedding , and trust that it will stick to their word - that is to marry him for a reason!
Answer2● __ Jue Bannan relic Answered at 2012-10-04 21:08:38
Bright hit the nail on the head . MedlinePlus I have an " alpha " husband ... and you can not nag. I suggest to help him realize that saving money for the wedding is actually their idea. Tell him I need to take control of the wedding plans ( or at least the parts you do not mind ;) I was wearing because you need him to be their hero . Seeing what is needed , and if he really wants to marry you , you will start saving . MedlinePlus Most men just want to be the hero , not a failure .
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