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Is it logical to fear your future as a result of your past?3Denise2012-11-05 17:50:02
People always tell me I worry too much and live in the past and the "negative" . I have fear of my future life , because of what happened to me before . As you know , the world is getting worse and worse every minute. People are becoming more and more cruel and get away with it . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Whenever you plan for the future , never turns out the way you want. So in the end , I feel that it is pointless for me to plan for the future , and that I should just let whatever happens . It's making me quite depressed . I have 24 years , mental patients with OCD , anxiety , Tourette syndrome , and depression . I have my bachelor's degree in Spanish , and I'm still not fluent . I have no $ $ or resources to travel and immerse myself in foreign cultures and countries. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Many people my age and younger , own businesses , are married with children , nice cars , a house , etc. Here , I'm just barely surviving on disability checks , large student loan debt , single, no children , very limited social life , no car . At least I have my own apartment .
Logical ideas for getting rid of bills faster?1Star :)2012-09-24 18:15:03
Now I have three jobs, is there any way ( without declaring bankruptcy ) that I can get rid of my bills faster? I have a car payment , student loan , and two credit cards and several other bills that I will always have ( mobile phone , utilities , etc. ) Does anyone have any logical idea ?
Help me lose this fear.?1Sumone2012-10-16 22:19:03
I gave my social number , routing number, account number , address, and a lot of personal information online for loans desperate . I stil received no money on my card . I have fear now that when you receive money on my card to be able to recover . What should I do . I have fear.
How can you overcome the fear of student loans?1sybrina2012-08-26 03:36:03
I 'm going to another year of college . Tuition is going up every year and students in similar situations I often struggle. Last year I had saved enough money for books , food , fees , etc. , and this year I will start with nothing . I applied for financial aid and took two loans available . However, I am still on a short piano . Today I made an online loan application for a private lender , but not sure I will go through with it or not. I just want to make a difference in my life , because right now I 'm poor and I want to finish college and land a good job with the help of God . So what should I do ?
I've come so far, but I fear that I'm back peddling.. Advice?0calf2012-09-11 18:17:03
Ok .. My plan this summer is to go to NYC . MedlinePlus Since August I started living like a miser and paid three credit cards . MedlinePlus I have one more to go student loans ( They are consolidated so I do not mind paying monthly because it is cheap ) . MedlinePlus But I doggonit freaking money spent 3 days in a row of fast food! ! He had left all this time and I lost some weight MedlinePlus . My plan was to have all my weight and my last credit card before April 15 ( the last day of the tax season ) .. I feel like I 'm going back to my old ways ( Do I do this for fear of failure ? ) Anyway , is the beginning of the month , please give me advice to get back on track and follow through on my goal ! I want to move to New York on July 16 ( my 30th birthday ) I'm tired of failing in my dreams , and I do not .. Please give me advice !
Stuck in a trap of fear and unhappiness?0Robyn2012-09-19 08:57:03
However, our financial condition = barely surviving. We reduce everything and only pay for what you need - rent, basic food, electricity, etc. We are completely broke after. We have no way forward unless I get a job that has been very difficult for me because I have anxiety disorders and depression. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I had a job before, but I left a couple of days later because he could not handle it. I was nervous to go to work, I was scared the whole time I was working because I always think of the worst in my head - What if the mother is kidnapped or injured and no one is around to help her? What if he dies? What if they kick us out of our apartment, with no place to live. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus We have spent a few evacuation orders and were lucky to have a friend give us some money, we're still pays you back for months. I doubt we will lend money again after the time we have been paying. Mom has taken and continues to pay the loans back after almost a year. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus We'll never get out of this situation for rent and purchase. I want to buy what you do not have to live in fear of having a place to call home. I'm always emphasizing this. and even if you get a job, we would be in this situation for years just to get to a payment not mind paying the mortgage. which is not really a mortgage, just bring a lot of money for a down payment. and then I will focus on the time we can pay the mortgage. I do not think I can handle losing a home after all the hard work and stress. How did you come up with the down payment? How long did it take? What kind of work I have to do to buy a house? I'm still working on getting my grade 12 but I'm not a real school, only an online course for grade 10 jobs. (I have 18 years by the way) I do not like to see people walking and they live happy lives, worry about shelter or food. I'm pretending I'm always happy, laughing smile fake, fake ... I'm tired of putting on a show for everyone. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have not been diagnosed correctly with disorders.depression anxiety, but I'm 98% sure they do, I have had symptoms since I was 3. We can not afford a therapist (who can barely afford to survive) and no doctor to see a doctor. I do not know how to deal with this. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus there are some days I wish I could give up (do not die, just live a shitty life, easy) and sleep all day and I would be very depressed, and then there are other days when I decide I'm willing to suck up, get 3 seats work and work 18 hours / 7/days/week day.
Why does everyone succomon to fear and sell thier stocks when the media yells recession?1Chandice2012-10-24 21:04:02
People panic and sell their shares at low prices because they think they will lose money, when that's exactly what companies to go under. On Wall Street, stocks fell due to people panicing and selling their shares because the media smear in the world face when a few companies go bankrupt. I mean people are selling their shares (and not buy as they should be) in companies that are not doing badly, making their share prices fall. Remember America, to buy shares at low prices, the profit company money, what people do best and thrive. All the media hype of Fannie Mae and Freddie Mack, Lehman, and now the threat of AIG, has caused great loss to other companies in the stock market because people are thinking OH MY GOD
Law of attraction and end result?3gander_wild goose2012-10-06 19:10:02
I've been panicing for a while, but now I'm tring to think positive and get control over the situation . I read not to focus on money , but rather the end result. So here's the problem , I work and sales and have not done anything ! And I have a thousand worth of bills that have been removed from my account , and I am very negative. They sent them all back , but are pending again a second time. I spent the weekend trying to sell things online and even asking for donations . Avial not . Tomorrow is Monday and if I have money in my account , I'm in major trouble . Also for some loans , but not approved . So, I focus on having a positive balance in my account and pay the bills? Anyone created any miracles with LOA ? How should I do it ?
The War In Iraq Has Cost More Than Any Obama Proposed Plan Why Do Republicans Fear Social Programs More?3tegan2012-09-15 18:38:04
Obama wants out of Iraq and shift those dollars lost to much needed social reforms . If Republicans are anti socialism means that it would be okay for McCain to leave Social Security and Medicaid ? Is socialism for the rich better than socialism for the middle class ? The Republicans support programs that provide billions for loans to small businesses and small businesses create most of the jobs in America?
I had something bad happen in my past, but i cant get past it. ?2ishi2012-08-31 03:18:03
Is not it right that someone or something to overcome rid of everything that reminds you of him ? I have the car still has a lot to do with a bad situation I was in. Every time I get in the car or even look at him I remember what happened . What I can do to get rid of the car ? I can not afford a new one and my credit is too low to obtain a lease / loan. I do not know what to do .
So you think Republicans don't know what a result is because they have never had any good ones?1Ignatius2012-09-18 22:39:04
Restrictions MedlinePlus invested in stem cell research Appointed assistant to the president for science and technology policy MedlinePlus A fund was established to prevent foreclosure for homeowners MedlinePlus Extension of loan programs for small businesses MedlinePlus Extended and indexed the 2007 Alternative Minimum Tax patch MedlinePlus Expanded eligibility for State Children
So you think Republicans don't know what a result is because they have never had any good ones?4shabana2012-10-15 22:39:03
What did Obama ( aka results ) MedlinePlus MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Restrictions MedlinePlus invested in stem cell research Appointed assistant to the president for science and technology policy MedlinePlus A fund was established to prevent foreclosure for homeowners MedlinePlus Extension of loan programs for small businesses MedlinePlus Extended and indexed the 2007 Alternative Minimum Tax patch MedlinePlus Expanded eligibility for State Children

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