Is it logical to fear your future as a result of your past?

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Denise
Asked at 2012-08-31 20:07:04
People always tell me I worry too much and live in the past and the "negative" . I have fear of my future life , because of what happened to me before . As you know , the world is getting worse and worse every minute. People are becoming more and more cruel and get away with it . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Whenever you plan for the future , never turns out the way you want. So in the end , I feel that it is pointless for me to plan for the future , and that I should just let whatever happens . It's making me quite depressed . I have 24 years , mental patients with OCD , anxiety , Tourette syndrome , and depression . I have my bachelor's degree in Spanish , and I'm still not fluent . I have no $ $ or resources to travel and immerse myself in foreign cultures and countries. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Many people my age and younger , own businesses , are married with children , nice cars , a house , etc. Here , I'm just barely surviving on disability checks , large student loan debt , single, no children , very limited social life , no car . At least I have my own apartment .
Answer1JACQUELYNNEAnswered at 2012-09-04 02:53:03
yes it is, because the things we know about ourselves that causes fear? MedlinePlus So change things within MedlinePlus You can also slow down the things that you do not
Answer2kimberly harilallAnswered at 2012-09-27 05:20:04
I once heard that pessimism is more logical becuase actuallee prepairs or for anything bad to happen cud. but I'm not so sure about that . onlee concern seems twice as bad event that may or may not ocure , a how valuable is to do soemthing that makes ur life as less , even if less prepaired for consqeunces ur negetive , wudnt u happiest place before them ?
percent or compair Successes ur life to others. im 19 , I have my drivers lisence , however , I live in the house, im going to college , but I compair percent of my life to others , the most important thing in life is to know about urself , find what makes u happy , one doing it! ! MedlinePlus I try not to be pessimistic .. but liek u sed , its hard not to expect the worst, when ur worst fears keep coming true. but ive been tryign latelee so hard not to see things that occur in life , but obsticles adventures to distract treatment whenever I have a thought negetive one jus keep busy with things liek , I think if I'm constantly doing soemthing , then I feel liek im Werking toward my goals i dont so mad if things Werk out ? MedlinePlus Hope that helps * hugs *
Answer3active voiceAnswered at 2012-11-03 20:43:47
Sorry to hear about your disability, that has 2 b tough. The problem that u now will face is u will have a hard time with everything b-cause of your illness. The 1st thing u need 2 do is stop watching the news it will only depress u more! U also have 2 try 2 stay positive in your life. Everyday is a new day w/ a different outcome. It is only what u make of it. Something that always helps me is saying to myself that it could be worse! Even when we are having a hard time and barely getting by there is always someone out there that has it worse than we do. God Bless U, and Good luck 2 U!
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