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Family dilema?0N-COUNT-COLL 2012-08-20 16:15:02
Hi all ! MedlinePlus Here's my dilemma .. my brother went for a vacation of 2 months. He asked me to see him while he is there , but now a month on their "vacation " that is already having money problems . I had to borrow some money . MedlinePlus Now my concern here is that I have my ticket and I'm not sure if I should go or not ! MedlinePlus So basically , money is tight ! He said he has yet to go , but if I go, he is going to feel guilty . MedlinePlus How I can do ? !
Bought a car with an old title and now in dilema?0Plaster2012-10-27 09:11:14
So here's the deal, I bought a car given the title, the contract of sale and had all the information of the person. This was only a $ 1,000 car (basically a junker) and a fairly simple process. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I'll hand dmv in title with the intent to transfer to my name and instead I get my plates and title registration and a receipt. The DMV told me to get my title two weeks later in the mail. As was two weeks later I received a letter in the mail from them, never bothered to open and save it in the drawer and arrange for my title. I looked a few months later and realized that he had said he had an old title and had to receive the new, for the change of ownership. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I try to call the guy I bought the car and his phone is disconnected, so go home and empty. I ask the neighbors and they say they have moved. I can not get the new title or find a way to communicate with man. I looked at his name everywhere and can not find it. So call the DMV and ask what to do in the situation and was told I could go to the Missouri circuit court with proof of purchase and title transfer receipt and must be able to make me a title approval. I go to the circuit court and I have said it is the job of the DMV to do this and do nothing with the titles. I call the DMV again and not even listening to me because they say it is not their problem and to go to court. I called several numbers, both the Court and DMV only referred to the other. I do not know what to do in this situation or in the car. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Is my car? If I have nothing to do with it as I can not find the man who sold it to me. I am told that he was cheated, but the car is very nice and do not see why it would be worth giving me a bad title for a junker. You can not borrow at him or anything. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus What department should I go and who I can call that can make this right? Or I can go without the title, provided they are registered in my name?
I have a Rent a Center dilema about pawning?0debb2012-09-16 10:20:12
I've been a customer rent a center for 5 years. I have rented several times and paid a lot of items through my years with them . He found a problem. About 4 months ago I ran into car trouble and work and had to pawn the merchadise to help pay medical bills I had. I'm not a person who lies kept paying for the items and admitted to rent a facility that the goods pawned . They agreed to refinance my loan at a lower rate to about 3.5 months, but as if he was never late . Since then I have been making payments on time. Now they have decided to file for bankruptcy to other matters not about rent a center . Under bankruptcy law I have to include all debts including rac . My lawyer says that because they can not pay rac put in my bankruptcy and I'll be able to pay by installments . I know that theft is when they initially intended to sell it, but I did not. My medical bills are taking over my income and I have to stay in a rock and a hard place . RAC talked to say that if I still had the good that I can come back , but not me. If they wanted to arrest me they should have done it when I admitted it. What can happen in this situation I will go to civil court and get sued , or should I let my lawyer settle this. If bankruptcy is discharged Throught that 's fine, but I have no problem paying . It is only now with attorney fees 'm going to be behind on your payments .
In a bit of a dilema. I say we need to move Hubby says wait it out.?1tyrik2012-09-08 23:40:02
We rented this house for four years tried to move several times and each time something has happened. But this time I feel I have to run. The owners are becoming a little shade for me. In the last 4 years I have received calls for the man all day and night time he learned that he was using our business number. I refer to the threatening calls. Then we have your email. So we took a bit of it for Monday night. Knowing that the man left .. Only married for three years. She said he left the deepest part of Christmas night. He hates his truck, his life, his job, his marriage, the house in which we live, the house they just moved on. The house we live in has that hates his clothes. Anything. Well, she says she just wants to give us the payment book and leave. The house needs a lot of repairs. It needs a new roof, a foundation Sills or replaced according to him, the insulation needs. This is a 150 year old house. I do not want the headaches of all you need to set it. I fear that if he decides to commit suicide and is still in his name. They can throw us heritage. Or your family can come to get out. Or you miss out on other bills and then the bank comes and takes him away from us after we paid a lot of money. I say run fast as we can. My husband says wait. Only I have a bad feeling. I know we've lived here for 4 years and have helped us in the past.1st time I wanted to change where Rent was going to be struck by lightning. The 2nd post of the lady who had ended up in hospital. The 3rd time going to move down to rent for one year of $ 600 to $ 470. And now it is done and said the owner and his wife separated and she says she no longer wnats the only place we get the payment book and he does. He leaves. But I have really scared to do this. We do not have the credit to go to the bank and get a loan for it. We just submitted chapter 7 last year due to a lot of medical bills .. I am at wits end tell Husband license says wait and see. So pay another month and then the bank rental returns then we have no money and no place to go.
Sisters of the bride, Sister of the groom dilema...?2ashlin2012-09-27 16:08:03
Okay so my sister is getting married , me and my two sisters are bridemaids with the only sister of the groom . We are trying to come together to launch our sister a bachelorette party , but all obviously are not money . We want to rent a room that is paid by the board and the number of people eating ... Not expensive , like $ 10 a plate and obviously we will be paying for favors , centerpieces, etc. , we will not be super expensive, but we are not sure if the groom's sister will help pay . We've mentioned several times , but my sister , she broke seperatly let us know ( by choice , not work over time when offers / dropped out of college - no excuse) and the groom had to buy the dress for her BM , but regardless you need to know whether to pitch in to make our way to meet our spending limit ... we must go directly and ask "will have the money to split the costs with us ? seems a bit overwhelming for me . But to be honest I do not want to assume and be screwed because I am a college student 21 years of age , student working full time with a car loan , and bills to pay ... I feel better knowing that before planning ! MedlinePlus MedlinePlus In addition ... my sisters think that if she did not pitch in then you should not receive credit for it ... as in the invitation launched by : Sisters of the bride - it would be cruel of us to not include your name ? ! I mean I think it's kind of a bitch , but it is true that they are the ones who put our upmost time , effort and money to launch our sister a bachelorette party she will appreciate !
Brilliant Finance mind required to solve my dilema..?0Tomisha b2012-11-03 10:07:02
Just had to put my mother in a nursing home , home, she has two rental properties, and a small home , income from rent is equal to the rate of asylum . , Half resident is rented for small fee, and half is for when I visit . MedlinePlus The thing is that one of the rental properties , you need a new roof and updates. , And home resident also needs some roof repairs. MedlinePlus The savings account is nominal , and the houses are paid . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus How I can get the repairs done? , W / or cash. MedlinePlus Should I get a small loan or mortgage? , I'm not sure how I will pay rent barely covers themback as nursing homes share .. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus How I can make this work ?
If a family member dies, and still owes money on a car(loan) could another family member take over for them?0a hall2012-09-15 01:36:04
Say you had paid all but six payments , but then died suddenly , it is possible that a close family member take ownership of the car and continue paying the loan ? Or the bank repo it? And the state is denying the transfer of title because the owner can not sign the letter of dismissal - ( plus it has to be notarized ) ?
What happens when family member passes away and has a car loan but the loan is being paid for by a family memb1sans2012-09-18 03:29:04
DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO ! MedlinePlus MedlinePlus In 2003 my father took a loan for a new car , but I was going to make the payments. We had informed the licensee of this and he said , because he was the only person on the loan it best to wait halfway through the loan and then change my name. ( as my credit is not the best ) Unfortunately my father died eight months later and the bank never told me , but I kept making payments . But until a few months ago I ran into some money problems and was not
What happens when family member passes away and has a car loan but the loan is being paid for by a family memb?0Ady2012-10-14 20:01:23
Would you do this with your family?2Bolton2012-10-22 22:15:02
Last year at this time my wife, 2 year old daughter and I lived in a house that was upside down on. We had a large payment and had a job you really do not pay well. She discovered she was pregnant with our second child in June. I worked full time and went to school full time on my way to earn an associate degree. She was a homemaker. We were struggling and had very little direction. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Sometime in November, I came up with the idea of ​​us selling all our stuff, quit my job, and away to school at a major university. At first it seemed crazy and impossible. I started selling our stuff and put the house up for sale. On Janurary were in a car and pay off some debts. In February, we moved to the house of my wife's grandparents to save money while we waited for our house to sell. After several months, still no luck in the house. So negotaited return it to the bank, and not affect my credit. I know it sounds crazy, but it happened. I was recently accepted to the university, and have a home in the school where parents can live with their children. My wife and I are going to the two full-time, paid mostly by financial assistance, and some student loans. They have long work either. It will be great to not have the stress of a job for a while, and just get to focus on my family and school. Many things have changed for us last year, I have to thank God for all that. Would you be scared and sell everything, leave work and return to school with two kids? If you are unhappy with your life, why not do something different? If we do not act now, I never will! Good luck and God bless MedlinePlus MedlinePlus BTW: I have 26 years, my wife is 25, my kids are 3 years and 4 mo. When we graduate we will have about $ 15.00 in student loans, not bad for two degrees of BA. We're getting a lot of school attendance. MedlinePlus
What to do about family?0☻i♥zee☻-rfm2012-09-28 06:16:02
My mother, for some reason wanted total control when I was trying to be independent. MedlinePlus In his senior year in high school she did not let me go anywhere. My sister used to rip the phone out of hand when I tried to make a phone call. They made my life hell. Then I went to college. I came home in the summer, because I really had no where to go. He tried to take the car away from me. She was unusually strict rules. I was with a guy from the next break, so I had to go home. It was so boring. The next break I came home, threw my stuff in the grass because I was not listening to these rules. My sister on the other side was a year older had no rules. My mother's excuse was that I went to school. Does that make sense? After I graduated I went home because I needed to find a job. I became very depressed. I went, but I tried to talk to her on the phone and wanted to know why it was so with me. He hung up the phone every time she did not like what he had to say. She would not go to counseling with me. I have 31 years now. She still is. Now she does not answer the phone. She tries to avoid all the problems and just says to get over it. If a stanger treated me well would say to get the f of my life. My sister has a baby now and I have not really wanted to see it. She said she did not want a sister. He apologized to me when she was 28 and said we were kids then, but she really treated me like crap all my life. She expected to apologize and told me never to refer to issues. They did so much damage to me. In my teenage years I never went to a prom or anything because I was wondering how to get out. If I bring up a problem with my mother says "well that is helping with your student loans" When I was struggling school really had no financial support from her.
When is it time to cut off family?0Kaylie2012-10-02 23:33:18
To make a long story short. A few years ago I left home and decided to finish school, travel the world and pick up a few languages. I consider it a blessing and something that I take for granted. I have not been home in two years and recently returned home to what has been a less than lukewarm reception. I did not leave on bad terms, in fact, I left two years ago to take a teaching job in Europe. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have recently returned to the airport and when I arrived, my own mother did not smile, do not hug me and was very rude when I picked up at the airport and I had not seen in two years! My mom and sister went behind my back and planned a family event the week after I got here and did not tell me. I had to find out for my nephew age 9 seemed sad that I was not going. Nobody told me and when I said it was too late. My mother finds things to start arguments. If you keep the place clean, going to complain about something I ate. If foods are replaced, complains about other things. If she does not complain about it then it is nice not to talk much to me. My nephew also told me that my sister threw, threw himself brought me memories of Spain for her. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I'm making plans to go out again and I'm at the point where you just want to get away and not tell anyone. I can not believe that even after being gone for two years, things are well. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have prayed, cried, sent emails, tried to talk with the family, asking if I've ever done something for them that are angry and always say no, but his actions tell me otherwise. I really hate to be back "home" because I do not feel love being here at all. These experiences make me NEVER want to have a family, if MedlinePlus will this shit! MedlinePlus I should probably mention that my sister or mother have done much traveling and have not finished school. I never talk about how I finished school and if anything I talk about how I'm drowning in student loan debt! About once or twice a week, I ask my nephew to help around the house taking a garbage bag while I go out with him. The last time I asked my mother heard this, and she came to me and said: "He did not take out the trash, do it" and then left .... What gives? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I am very depressed and ready to go. Would it be wrong of me to just leave without saying a word? If someone is determined to be only negative and toxic, is what God expects of us really to stay and put up with that? My family hates me and I hate to leave you for staying. I'm so tired of being here and I do not want: (

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