My boyfriend offer me a loan to pay off my debts.He asked for repayment. Aren't couple suppose to share debts?

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dil dil P
Asked at 2012-08-07 04:32:02
I always feel a couple has to share everything .. good and bad .. In my case, would my credit card debt . It hurts when the other party is still calculating ... asking for a refund . I thought the interest-free, I still find it painful. I would have to help pay the debts together , if he is the only one in my shoes.
Answer1Henry2Answered at 2012-08-07 05:49:02
Your debt is not yours until she married . It is unreasonable to expect him to take you out of financial difficulties . If it were true that unmarried couples should share the debt, then you should help pay their bills. Just pay your bills and forget the idea that your boyfriend must rescue . When you are married, then you can talk about the debt of the community.
Answer2brandiAnswered at 2012-08-07 07:09:03
You do not get married , maybe have to see how serious it is as a person and are willing to get out of debt , why are you stuck paying your bills?
Answer3midoAnswered at 2012-08-07 07:23:03
who were their credit card debt , if not?
Answer4Com 155Answered at 2012-08-07 08:52:45
Unless you are married, do not think you should have read more into it than a loan. You said that he " offered a loan." That was very clear. No one offered to assume the payment of its debts and I think they owe you.
Answer5mannyAnswered at 2012-08-07 15:31:45
That goes both ways . If you feel that you can apply for the loan to help pay your debt, you must be willing to pay you back in return. They are still in the lead, and you save on interests of their credit cards.
Answer6GeovandaAnswered at 2012-08-07 18:10:03
It's easy for you to say to participate in debt as it is yours. Why should I pay for your debts? Your never married. He takes out a payment plan is best. Thus reducing the problem . Do you know how much to pay and when you pay and do not feel like their use and do not pay enough when it should be . He gives you the opportunity to pay your debt interest free .
Answer7really need help...Answered at 2012-08-07 18:39:03
Married couples , yes.
However, if your only dating , treat it like a bank and expect nothing less.
It seems that this guy wants to hold you and need a way to do it , keeping your sanity intact.
Answer8AMWAnswered at 2012-08-07 19:13:45
No, your boyfriend is not responsible for your old credit card debt . It is good to take a loan, but pay it.
Answer9ppAnswered at 2012-08-07 20:58:05
You are being too sensitive. What happens if you break up with him ? You are not married, is your money, and he is entitled to it .
Answer10LilitAnswered at 2012-08-08 02:39:02
If your boyfriend is more ....... then a loan is in order! What is he saying he will not leave after he gives his loot ?

He is in his right mind and maybe I'll ask her to marry him after you are debt free !

It is a good way to start a marriage! And a good way to prove that love him and are willing to work together!

The fact that he's doing it this way does not mean he does not love you !
Answer11tessyAnswered at 2012-08-08 03:14:02
He is treating you as an independent human being. The merger of all their financial interests, etc. , is part of the permanent called marriage , and apparently not ready for that.
Answer12TallieAnswered at 2012-08-08 08:22:02
Typical. Run the debt and they want the man to pay for it. Put the shoe on the other foot for a minute.
Answer13andrea... help!!!!Answered at 2012-08-08 14:54:44
1 . How much money are we talking about? $ 500 or $ 5,000 or $ 50,000 !

2 . A boyfriend is not a husband. Until you are officially married , things should be kept separate.

In short : I agree with your boyfriend.
Answer14Ms. NobodyAnswered at 2012-08-08 20:09:02
you said that the boyfriend is not your husband DAMN !
Answer15induAnswered at 2012-08-08 22:31:02
only if their marriage
Answer16rmzAnswered at 2012-08-09 01:05:02
You are not married - you do not have to share anything - it was good to help , you have to pay again
Answer17gokuAnswered at 2012-08-09 07:37:43
but never be in their shoes, or that yours.he is helping to make a mature adult.
Answer18berkysAnswered at 2012-08-10 00:23:03
No, not your marriage and besides that did'nt accumulate debt together. This was his debt and obligation to pay. He is certainly doing its part and offered to help with the loan. Consider lucky.What would do in your situation is a different story.
Answer19JoselynAnswered at 2012-08-10 02:51:03
Why your boyfriend will be liable for its debts ? He is now offering to do something generous , helping to pay your debts so you do not have to pay high interest rates the credit card company . You are not married, has no obligation to offer , even. He is only protecting himself in case you become separated. If I were him , I would be sure to get something in writing from you.

And you said you would pay the debts, but I would feel differently if I actually had the money. He worked hard and saved that money - make it yours , not yours !
Answer20nettie <3Answered at 2012-08-10 03:59:02
Only if you are married Do you share the debt.
Perhaps also if they have been living together for quite some time and marriage is in the near future . However, it is justified for a refund , since you two are not legally bound to each other 's assets .
Answer21AdrianaAnswered at 2012-08-11 19:34:02
tell him how you feel, but does not have a boyfriend to help with the financial situation. That's what a husband , not a boyfriend.
Answer22amieAnswered at 2012-08-12 19:36:02
yes they are
Answer23jonniAnswered at 2012-08-13 21:04:02
You are not married. Unless you're married , your debts and assets are completely separate.
Answer24SungAnswered at 2012-08-14 18:08:35
He is already saving money by not charging interest - I should be grateful . Your boyfriend does not have to shoulder their debts. That's what husbands are for. :)
Answer25AntiaAnswered at 2012-08-15 02:11:02
when married
Answer26BrakenetteAnswered at 2012-08-19 17:14:02
Have you ever seen Judge Judy ? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Money back .... Business is business , not mixing business with pleasure . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Now you know the kind of man he is , do not do it for him , he is not willing to do for you ! MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Let this situation is a good indicator of the kind of man he is .... Also talk to him about how you feel!
Answer27sassssyAnswered at 2012-08-23 18:04:22
unless your marriage , your money and debts.
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