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Need some suggestions . . . wisdom or advice? We're eloping.?0natahliee2012-09-25 17:49:02
Ok, long story short: MedlinePlus MedlinePlus My mother is psychologically / emotionally abusive to me. She has always been so, but it has become increasingly worse since I turned 10. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have had a relationship with my fiance (from January) for 5 years. Note: I'll be 19 and will be 21 in August. Well, my parents were fully supportive of us until he proposed. Its main problem appeared to be that my boyfriend did not speak to my dad just before he proposed, but they call me several hours after angry reactions alter my mother. (However, my boyfriend had a long talk with my father a year before the proposal and received the blessing of my father to me Court and, of course, eventually got married). MedlinePlus MedlinePlus OK, well, now that it's been two full months of verbal abuse / emotional part of my mothers (only a place on the calendar is the most recent email sent 24-paragraph hateful to me saying things like knowing the mind of God and she knew that God did not really have here, etc). Well, I hung up with them last week. I said I wanted to speak with them again once they knew exactly where I was. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus At this point in my life, I am very independent most of them. I'm paying all of my school without my father a loan co-signed (which means nothing to them unless I do and where brands affected credit), I'm your insurance, and having the title of my car , and because state laws that have access to my bank account in Alabama until you have 19. Other than that, I had my own job for two years until I had to move 10 hours to the university. I kept my grades. I was valedictorian when I graduated. Anyway. . . I could go on forever. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus My boyfriend and I have talked extensively. We talked to their parents. We talked to her sister and brother-(10 years his senior - married for about 8 years). We also spoke to our Pastor (father of four daughters, the eldest of whom he married just over a month). MedlinePlus MedlinePlus We concluded that we flee. My parents want to break our commitment to end our relationship, and for him to come home and live in your room. . . however long and transfer to school. We are perfectly able to get an apartment and live on our own, but since my boyfriend wants to go to a surgical technology program for a year, going to live with their parents until I have my associates in Graphic Design next spring (2010 ). MedlinePlus MedlinePlus My mother has "deteriorated" the ears of all my relatives (nothing new ... just a new situation) so I have a big forehead against my marriage. I do not want my mother at my wedding at this time anyway, if we expect the most original of the year (in March or May 2010) or escaped in the next couple of months. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I'll write a handwritten letter to my parents to let them know we're gonna do this and that I love, but do not want to be a part of this until we can actually support. MedlinePlus Really need some advice right now exactly what to say and how to word it. I do not want to be spiteful and implacable hatred or at all. I'm not! I'm through with the abuse and the shit and meaningless. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus HELP! Pleaaase!
NEED CREDIT ADVICE! suggestions?2Ashfia2012-09-09 10:05:04
I have a few concessions to load on my credit report : 2 credit cards , cable bill , two counts of other small , I am almost finished paying off a credit card , but I have $ 1,300 and that's enough to pay all negative on my credit report , so I will call all the agencies and pay all in one day , then I was thinking about trying to get a credit card or small secured bank loan to build my credit again, I want to try to get a car in about seven months and I have decent credit, so do not need a guarantor , any suggestions
Applied for a $3,000 loan thru CitiFinancial...any advice, suggestions? Experiences?0Coumba2012-08-28 08:30:16
I just applied online for a loan of $ 3,000 to pay for school at night and pay my credit card . Does anyone have experience with Citibank ? I'm in upstate New York and may be a loan through Citizens Bank if I pass through Citibank . I'm getting a second job from September 1 , what happens is that now my hours have been cut at work, and my tuition bill is fast approaching . I guess it could also pay Discover card . Any advice or suggestions? Thank you very much .
I would be so grateful for some wisdom and ideas!!?0Dane2012-08-16 04:37:03
I wonder if a really smart person would be willing to share an idea from me ? I would really appreciate it ! In six months I am thinking of leaving the country for some type of training. Unfortunately , scholarships, school loans do not apply and the program is not able to offer help with that. I have almost six months and I find I have to save about $ 5,000 and I am a teacher and the school year is ending and I 'm panicking ! I'm looking for a second job. I doubt I can get bank loans and I would not be in debt, but does anyone know of this? I thought of using the Internet for income, but there are so many scams ? I speak Spanish and I have my degree in Spanish. I thought Spanish tutoring or mentoring people in English, but I'm not sure how to go about doing it ? I thought about being an online translator? But not sure how. Can u sell artworks online (I'm also an artist )?
Wisdom in financing a new vehicle before mortage is closed on?3sus2012-09-07 06:16:02
My boyfriend is waiting to close on your home and decided that he also needs a new vehicle. ( You can pay the payments , which is not a concern at all. ) I said maybe I should wait until after they actually close at home before he joins a loan to your financial profile , but said that because his mortgage was initially approved for $ 80K and that's more than your home ( $ 50K ) and combined car ( $ 15K ) to get the loan that the first car will not make a difference. For me , common sense would say you should wait until after your home is safe before buying a vehicle - at least , I think the mortgage papers would have to start again soon as there is this debt of $ 15K to be included in your finances, but I have never encountered this before. I'd just hate for him to ruin the prestige of your mortgage - thoughts?
Am I foolish for paying for my wisdom teeth extraction out of pocket?1Crai2012-09-22 10:55:02
Please give me your honest opinion . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I am a junior in college , living on my own , without family ties because of an abusive situation I left. I separated from his safe . Medicaid gave me a high deductible because of my job that pays well . However, I have recently fired . I have another job that pays little and student loans to pay rent / cell phone bill now . MedlinePlus So I called oral surgeons offering IV sedation within 60 miles , and they are public hospitals and one university that is very questionable ( I have visited ) . The public hospital I went to a surgeon assigned me with 6 months experience after dental school . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have four impacted teeth , possibly abscess formation . I can not risk a bad procedure and other visits , so we chose a surgeon in my city with a reputation that is charging $ 2,500 ish . I can set up a credit account for care or payment. I'm not sure whether or not to establish Care Credit ( read bad reviews online about them ) or to pay in advance. I have no credit history and have been living on my own for almost eight months . However, I am willing to have painful teeth removed , and I feel very comfortable with the surgeon you choose . What do you think ?
A Little Biker Wisdom -- from the smartest people (Part 6)ya dun like dun open?0Joy Garner2012-10-14 19:10:16
Willys cynical thought for the day: MedlinePlus MedlinePlus As my father used to say: "Look at the trees.! Everyone is different Same with people that no two are the same damn" MedlinePlus -? Young riders pick a destination and go ... Old riders pick a direction and go. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Overconfidence can be supplied by spare spark plugs, a set of keys, and a roll of toilet paper. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Never offer to fight an old geezer. If you win, no glory. If you lose, your reputation is shot. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? A good key allows you to see without charging for it. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? The advice is free and worth every penny. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Sometimes the fastest way to get there is to spend the night. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Always back your scoot on the sidewalk and sit where you can see. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Work to Ride -. MedlinePlus commute MedlinePlus -? Whatever it is, it's better in the wind. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Two Lane Blacktop is not a Highway MedlinePlus: is an attitude. MedlinePlus -? When you look down the road seems endless, but you better believe it is. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? A cyclist can smell a party 5,000 miles away. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Winter is nature's way of telling you polish. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? A motorcycle can not sing on the streets of a city. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Keep your bike in good repair: motorcycle boots are not comfortable for walking MedlinePlus. MedlinePlus -? People are like Motorcycles: each is customized a bit differently MedlinePlus. MedlinePlus -? More races were won in the tavern at the track. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Never lend your bike to someone else, and never ride another. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? If the bike does not brake properly, do not start by rebuilding the engine. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Motorcycling is a giant game of mines bigger than yours! MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Remember to pay attention to both your partner as you do your carburetor. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Sometimes the best communication happens when you're on separate bikes. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus http://www.total-knowledge.com/ ~ willyblu
Am I foolish for paying for my wisdom teeth extraction out of pocket?1Benjie2012-09-19 13:21:02
Please give me your honest opinion . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I am a junior in college , living on my own , without family ties because of an abusive situation I left. I separated from his safe . Medicaid gave me a high deductible because of my job that pays well . However, I have recently fired . I have another job that pays little and student loans to pay rent / cell phone bill now . MedlinePlus So I called oral surgeons offering IV sedation within 60 miles , and they are public hospitals and one university that is very questionable ( I have visited ) . The public hospital I went to a surgeon assigned me with 6 months experience after dental school . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have four impacted teeth , possibly abscess formation . I can not risk a bad procedure and other visits , so we chose a surgeon in my city with a reputation that is charging $ 2,500 ish . I can set up a credit account for care or payment. I'm not sure whether or not to establish Care Credit ( read bad reviews online about them ) or to pay in advance. I have no credit history and have been living on my own for almost eight months . However, I am willing to have painful teeth removed , and I feel very comfortable with the surgeon you choose . What do you think ?
A Little Biker Wisdom -- from the smartest people (Part 4)LONG DON'T LIKE DON'T OPEN?0confused! :(2012-11-05 12:16:06
-? Young riders pick a destination and go ... Old riders pick a direction and go. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Overconfidence can be supplied by spare spark plugs, a set of keys, and a roll of toilet paper. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Never offer to fight an old geezer. If you win, no glory. If you lose, your reputation is shot. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? A good key allows you to see without charging for it. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? The advice is free and worth every penny. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Sometimes the fastest way to get there is to spend the night. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Always back your scoot on the sidewalk and sit where you can see. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Work to Ride -. MedlinePlus commute MedlinePlus -? Whatever it is, it's better in the wind. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Two Lane Blacktop is not a Highway MedlinePlus: is an attitude. MedlinePlus -? When you look down the road seems endless, but you better believe it is. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? A cyclist can smell a party 5,000 miles away. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Winter is nature's way of telling you polish. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? A motorcycle can not sing on the streets of a city. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Keep your bike in good repair: motorcycle boots are not comfortable for walking MedlinePlus. MedlinePlus -? People are like Motorcycles: each is customized a bit differently MedlinePlus. MedlinePlus -? More races were won in the tavern at the track. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Never lend your bike to someone else, and never ride another. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? If the bike does not brake properly, do not start by rebuilding the engine. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Motorcycling is a giant game of mines bigger than yours! MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Remember to pay attention to both your partner as you do your carburetor. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus -? Sometimes the best communication happens when you're on separate bikes. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus http://www.total-knowledge.com/ ~ willyblu
I need some suggestions?0Ingle2012-09-24 16:12:02
Ok I want a car TUNER ( Ricer ) for people muscle car plz suggest mustangs and such. Im looking for a few cars 300xz , celica , prelude integrates , haha not a citizen , however , 240sx , talon , eclipse and all those values ‚Äč‚Äčthat one is cheap and good ? any other suggestions pls leave them open to anything im im really looking for something less than $ 6,000 and should be able to buy with a loan so nothing about the blue book plz help : D
How do you buy your first car? Suggestions?0N-SING-COLL 2012-09-07 06:33:04
I'm still in high school, but going to college in a year , an dI was thinking of getting car and wondering how I would be able to save up a car ? I have a part time job and make around NZ $ 100 each week . I do not buy very cheap the cars ugly , but I have a fear of taking a car loan , I'm still a student and studying are my priorities ? Suggestions ?
Repossessed car - any suggestions?2melrose2012-11-04 07:08:02
Car brother of my friend, that my friend was driving was impounded . Officially , his brother owns the car . Only your name is on the title . He said he was paid completely out and gave him the car so he could get to his mother to help him get a new car . She never made any payments on this car because he thought he had already paid off. Now she does not have a car . She is my roommate and is currently unemployed , but have enough money saved to cover living costs only for a month . Your brother needs about $ 2,500 to retrieve the car . He has no money , and he does not. She is a good friend , but I can not turn that much money either. No one in your family can help. You could try to get a loan with bad credit but your brother and his lack of work , will be difficult to find a lender . Does anyone have suggestions on what we can do ?

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