So when is a good time to have a baby and start your family now in days anyways?

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keonnis johnson
Asked at 2012-08-10 17:41:03
I am pulled between the time it would be a good time to have a baby, since it seems that the plan as marriage, college, good job, financial stability, a house, and so will not come until I'm in my late of 30 and is that anything I do not wanna, I wanna be a young mother, but over time it takes now days to make your life until you have no choice but to wait until all the fact and strives to have a baby and do everything at the same time. It makes me angry because I have a wonderful boyfriend who is a hard worker and knows what she wants in life and is already beginning in his career that I am not a woman who knows what career you want and you have to do to be able to do and a woman who wants to be "ready" financially and married when she has her first baby, but we can not have a baby until they are much older, unless we fight. I have a baby now, if I could afford and had my own place, Ii have been with my boyfriend for 3 ½ years and we are talking about marriage, etc. .. I go to college in my second year of a diploma from a community college to transfer to college to become a teacher, but it will take more than 5 years before they take place in the university and be able to find a job teaching, I will not give up on my education I know what it's worth I grew up with nothing and I went well, but I'd be able to give more to my children every time it actually may have .. . so you will have 5 years to make the school that I have to find a job that is going to be a nuisance since I live in a small town and jobs are hard to find once I have a job that will take 60 years, 000 , 00 $ to pay off student loans for my education with an interest in that only make $ 42,000.00 / year to be a teacher when I can not see having a baby or have one while I'm at school and being poor and fight or have an after school and be poor and struggle ... our educational system and the economy that is so hard to have a family and a house is ridiculous. I want to be a young mother, so I can have a lot of energy for my kids and have energy to spare for my grandchildren, because my parents had in their 30's and never had a good connection with them because they have the energy to do anything with me and I think I had to grow much faster than a lot of people my age when I was little because my parents had no time to joke, lead to, build heavy snow, have playdates, and I my children to have an interesting childhood long, but I have enough money to do those things of the UN family vacation things that never have, because we had no money and my parents were too old to play with me. so that hatred in any way have to fight if you have small children or elderly, so I think I'll wait another 2 years of having my first child and either take online classes after that or switch to the university. I have a support system to good family to support me with my family and my boyfriends, if you have any stories to share or opinions would be great!
Answer1HeloAnswered at 2012-08-11 08:47:02
Kids are great , but they are tons of work and it seems that you have your hands full already. In my opinion it is necessary to establish a good marriage even before they can think of the children. That means they are married and living together does not mean you have to buy a house, but you need to live together, because there are kinks that come along with that. You will find the energy when the time comes for their children.
Answer2antoyAnswered at 2012-08-31 20:58:05
From experience , I can say that most people have debts or large investments of money for most of their lives . Whether pay for education, mortgage, retirement savings , etc. . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Therefore, having a baby should not be based primarily on having enough money . When you decide to have children , spending automatically put that on your list of priorities and adjust your budget accordingly. Less important expenses disappear . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus The real questions you should ask yourself is : Am I ready to have children ? Is my partner ready ? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Because children are a lifetime investment of time , emotion and money itself . But it's very rewarding (sometimes difficult but rewarding ) . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Only you can make that kind of decision. However, be sure that your partner and you are on this page . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Have a nice day !
Answer3KeeKeeAnswered at 2012-09-06 17:14:05
I have only one each time you want
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