Okay im 19 and im having a pre-life crisis....?

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Penelope
Asked at 2012-09-19 06:47:03
I love my life and I may sound like I'm just whining , but I have to get this off my chest .... MedlinePlus Want to have children because I want something to love me , but I am not financially stable to care for a child ... Am I wrong for feeling this way ... ? MedlinePlus My boyfriend is married and going through a divorce right now and at first I felt like I was wanted and needed and now I feel like I'm just something to keep your mind off things . He is so depressed and feel I can not do anything to be happy anymore ... Am I silly to love and stay with him .. ? MedlinePlus I am a college student and I can not seem to make the grades i want no matter how much you study ... college is right for me ? MedlinePlus I'm too young to be in debt , but I got student loans that come behind me and my mother - ed me to put some of his furniture in my name and stopped paying so now I owe $ 2,000 to the town furniture .. I just got my car back on track .. and my cell phone is ridiculus ... HELP ME !
Answer1kimnAnswered at 2012-09-29 07:49:03
Ok . So your going through a hard time . A child should be the last thing on your mind right now . So that's one thing from the list. MedlinePlus As for the boyfriend , if you feel you can not make him happy ? And this makes you unhappy? You have to leave . Hes going through a difficult time and also adding their problems to yours . MedlinePlus As for your mom ? Tell him he has to pay now . She is not doing any favors by not sticking to their end of the bargain . MedlinePlus Maybe if some of these problems you have to get sorted , then you have less to worry about and I think their ratings are collected . Do not give up education. It is the basis to start in life. There is one more push and get more proactive . These things are only going to get worse . MedlinePlus (( Lucky ) )
Answer2EDWARD HAGOODAnswered at 2012-10-02 14:58:03
Shame on your mother ! Shame on the date a married man ( yeah, yeah , they always say they are divorcing , but do not) MedlinePlus MedlinePlus You are not emotionally stable enough for a child right now. This is not a good situation - you are simply looking for " someone " who loves you unconditionally . And that works very well for the first two years with the baby , then they become terrible twos . So is the school to be with their friends (who wanted to be with his friends and not his mother , right? ) . AndOh , Lord , the teens ! You have made lifelong emotional and financial commitment to that person who just decided to punch his all , tells you to go to hell and oh yeah , stole your credit cards . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus And baby - dad are known to run off and leave you to hold the bag . And speaking of dirt -bags , Mr. Married dump right now. Back to school and concentrate on that , so you can get your degree and get a good job . Once you get a good job , with benefits , have a baby . Make some goals for yourself ... --- Other scum not trap you are hanging out with. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus You can not make him happy . Depression is a cycle unwieldy. Your relationship with him ( you're his bimbo , and I'm being hard , doing the devil's advocate here , but I'm seriously not helping him) is a joke - you're using for a crutch . He needs counseling. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Grab your epiphany and move on with her ‚Äč‚Äčlife without him - . Send your walking papers because he will not let MedlinePlus MedlinePlus The opportunity to have your family come and not need as your first child.
Answer3SabinaAnswered at 2012-10-03 19:41:56
Ok , first, the boyfriend thing , I say get rid of it . One of them , which must respect the fact that he is dating someone else ( even though it is currently going through a divorce , he is technically still type with her) . He should be mature enough to know that you are going wrong when someone still has . && Yes , definitely I think just being used to get your mind off of things && he 's playing like a toy . Now on the movable && mom . Get the material that you name , && put it in his. That would lower your shoulders && make help pay the debt that you put in his poor grades could be just because of all the stress you are going through now . I mean the debt && boyfriend . Just try to get away from the stress && approach in college , I mean really , it took some getting there right? The thing && child. Wait until you get out of college . Having a child while you are there only add more stress && make even worse your grades . Just worry about your school work , let the boy get back on track with your debts , work things out with your mom , && his life should be back on track . If you have any questions , just e- mail me . Hope this is some help for you . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus - Rachelx
Answer4u_r_fat Answered at 2012-10-03 22:10:14
do not rush anything and keep trying your hardest to get where you want in life. The Berlin Wall was not bulit in a day .. just remember not to stop loving that everyone has problems
Answer5khrista cyrusAnswered at 2012-10-14 23:22:19
Are you dating a married man ( a divorce does not mean anything until it is final) ? Honey, owing $ 2k in debt by his mother and the children really want is the least of your worries . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Release the married man , thinking of leaving school for a few semesters , accepting a full time job and get their debts under control . And keep your legs closed !
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