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If your daughter wanted to buy your truck, how would you feel?2kristal2012-10-07 15:30:02
I am a college student at my local college and switch about 40 miles to school every day . My father lent me his truck while I found my feet . He recently bought a new car and while I do not think you're missing his truck , I do not want to feel like I'm taking advantage of his generosity . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I've been looking for a car for several months and it is finally time to make a decision. I have to find a car MedlinePlus . MedlinePlus The thing is that the truck was paid only a few months before my father bought a new sports car . My family never had a lot of money , but we made do with what we have and when my father was given the oppertunity to buy a red cloth cover , he did not say no MedlinePlus . MedlinePlus She loves the car . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I know that if I were to make payments to him to pay the truck , will help. And give me peace of mind when it comes to balancing 18 credit hours at school and work . ( It bothered me pay more than you had , or take the car away if I could get the money . ) MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I'm not sure how I feel about what you pay. He hates when I offer to buy things . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Is it okay to buy his daughter a car for you, or you feel uncomfortable with the situation ? MedlinePlus Do you think your child was being responsible , and making a "safe" decision? Or do you cut your ties and find your own car ? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus How to approach his dad to offer this proposal ?
Am I the bad guy? My oldest daughter who is in college was in a bad truck accident?0kris marie2012-10-26 06:31:14
a couple of years without insurance. His credit was not good enough for a new car, so my husband and I used our credit to help get a new truck, later regretted that decision as he spent more than he felt comfortable with and in a Initially I thought it would be both his and my husband's names, but it proved only in his name. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus My daughter and I have gotten into some arguments about it in the past and our relationship suffered, but she always made the payments and stopped thinking about it. Now it's two years later and she has received some grant money and student loans and want to use it to pay off other debts, such as original truck crashed and also get a tattoo very expensive new TV. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus She is in a tough place right now with a lot of bills, go to school and work. I do not work. I am very angry about the decision not to use student loan money to pay at least a portion of the payments in advance truck that my husband's name is on. I called her and let her know something quietly that, actually, I'm angry about this and we had a discussion and I know she stressed enough. Then I feel awful about that too, but I feel justified in my stance. I feel like "your" debt that is being done in our name should be a priority, and I do not know if anything could happen in the future to prevent further his truck that these payments are $ 430 a month and it would be our responsibility to pay if she could not. I also discovered that if a vehicle is repossessed for non-payment of wages can be garnished for my husband and confiscate money from our bank account. Furthermore, we have no desire to own this truck. Finally, we all doubt that anything would happen to her and make payments hinders know that unintentionally fail to pay it, but the worst is that something could happen as a disease or injury or worse and I would not be MedlinePlus bear this weight. MedlinePlus Am I wrong to be angry with my daughter? I do not think I even want to spend the holidays with her now. Do I have faith that everything will continue to go along as it has been without interruption, I'm being paranoid and selfish? Should I have let him know that I was angry about this?
Oh man, I feel like I just got hit by a truck. I need 2,000$ to survive the next 2 months. Any advice?0puppy2012-09-25 02:33:02
I'll give a little review, so perhaps can offer some advice. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I just graduated from college with a degree. I was accepted into a doctoral program that provides a stipend of $ 25,000. I begin the PhD program in the 3rd week of August 2010. Besides that, I was offered (which I accepted) $ 20,000 in loans that help me out the first year. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Now, there is a gap between the time you start the PhD program and when I graduated. My father, who has been moderately lean (but not quite), I offered to stay with him and just relax for 3 months. I asked, knowing that he was having financial problems in the past, if I should stay here and get a job in a laboratory. He said he was doing well now, and I would not have to get a job or something. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I came to stay with him. A month has passed, and I just got a call from him, really out of nowhere, saying "no more money, I'm broke, you need to get a job" .... MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Now, I have only two months before I left for my doctoral program. I'm in a city with 4 high schools, each with> 400 graduates. I could not get a job in the short term, now even if I wanted to. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I checked my boyfriends and I will need ~ $ 2000 to do well these next two months, get to school, and started up there until they start getting my salary and I can get a value of $ 10,000 ~ of my loans. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have no one in my family who can give me $ 2000. I have no job, so I can not live in a credit card for these next two months. I'm angry at my father because just pretend that everything was fine, and then throw it to me, when I have very few options. I could have easily just stayed at my undergraduate institution and got a job until August. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I'm looking for options, maybe a personal loan of $ 2,000 with my mother cosigning (not sure if you will). I can try to get a private student loan, but now I think I have to be enrolled in classes, and that will not happen until August. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I really need some help. $ 2000 is all I need, and a dime, my father almost ruined my life. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus The problem is that I have to pay rent in advance before they can come into my apartment to my new school. I have to buy the gas to get to school. I have to eat in the next two months. I searched everywhere for a job, and I can not find one.
I don't feel that my daughter got the best interest rate possible on her student loan. Can anything be done?0vcq2012-11-05 06:12:29
Bought a truck for my son,no warranty. keeps breaking down.how do I legally get rid of this truck?0at2012-09-25 16:13:02
I have bad credit , car dealer got me a loan for a car for my teenager . worked great, seemed dealer great.Car say is that going to solve any problem , no charge , but something keeps breaking and then start charging me. ? I can legally get rid of this truck and auto - fax loan.Wrong , mileage.And wrong truck over- paid.
Fender bender - Lapsed insurance on friends truck - but I have insurance on my truck.?0aaniya gill2012-11-03 22:57:50
I have had a car on "loan" (perminent) at the house, I needed to use it to get to work, as a situation arose where I could not use my truck. 1.5 miles from home, I rear ended the person infront of me, (foot slipped from break) at a yield sign. I was going 5 mph. The vehicle I was driving was a 80's light truck - the grille and head lamps got smooshed. Driver #2 was driving a big huge suburban. pulled over, police came, report was written - it was discovered the insurance was lapsed on my friends truck. CRUD! I let the officer and the driver know that I would be happy to take care of anything that need to be done, so, all was OK. Driver #2 , The officer and I saw no visable damage to her SUV. I said, have it checked out, and let me know. I get a phone call from Driver #2 - with a 750.00 estimate on her bumper. Remember no visable damage. What should I do from here, I have Insurance on my Vehicle, but what if this estimate is for esthetics? Shouldnt her insurance contact me?
I'm an aspiring artist and I feel trapped in a small town and I just feel like I can't move forward?0ezequiel2012-10-10 00:14:07
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My mom is making me feel guilty for not helping her pay her tax bill, should I feel guilty?5Tammi Seibert2012-09-18 06:28:04
I'm a college student ( third year ) and work 60 hours a week in the summer to make sure you have sufficient funds to last me all year. My mom is what I call an " heir " , although I'm not sure if that's the right word ... not work at all , she inherited about $ 2 million in reserves from my grandfather a few decades ago and has since generated about $ 40,000 a year in dividends , which is what we live outside . She divorced my dad , and $ 40,000 a year , basically just takes us , pay the mortgage , food , car , utilities .. basics. Because my mom never really needed to work , we have developed a drinking problem and is constantly drinks as she spends most of her days . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus At this time you can not pay your tax bill is $ 3,000 and she asked if I wanted to pay , she says , " You've lived here all his life and I have never asked anything," I said no , because although I could probably find lend their money , I work very hard for every penny that is in my name and everything is for college and she could ask his brother (who has the same inheritance + makes a lot of money with a job any) for the money , but just choose not to. Now she has convinced my two younger brothers ( I have 20 years) I am a selfish greedy because I will not pay your tax bill . I feel like I'm turning my whole family against me and I do not know what to do . What do you think ?
My mom is making me feel guilty for not helping her pay her tax bill, should I feel guilty?1armadillo2012-10-13 10:09:02
I'm a college student ( third year ) and work 60 hours a week in the summer to make sure you have sufficient funds to last me all year. My mom is what I call an " heir " , although I'm not sure if that's the right word ... not work at all , she inherited about $ 2 million in reserves from my grandfather a few decades ago and has since generated about $ 40,000 a year in dividends , which is what we live outside . She divorced my dad , and $ 40,000 a year , basically just takes us , pay the mortgage , food , car , utilities .. basics. Because my mom never really needed to work , we have developed a problem with alcohol and drinks whenever as she spends most of her days . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus At this time you can not pay your tax bill is $ 3,000 and she asked if I wanted to pay , she says , " You've lived here all his life and I have never asked anything," I said no , because although I could probably find lend their money , I work very hard for every penny that is in my name and everything is for college and she could ask his brother (who has the same inheritance + makes a lot of money with a job any) for the money , but just choose not to. Now she has convinced my two younger brothers ( I have 20 years) I am a selfish greedy because I will not pay your tax bill . I feel like I'm turning my whole family against me and I do not know what to do . What do you think ?
Should I do what I've always wanted?0yes2012-09-29 20:09:03
I went to school to become a pharmacy technician , a half I realized I HATE pharmacy but finished anyway, MedlinePlus All my life , I wanted to go into a career with animals . Now I have a job with great benefits , I'm still in training , but I know I 'm going to hate . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I can take a course in animal health and do what I love, but it will not make money as well, and I just graduated . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have to apply this October if you really want to, but that means I'll be poor for a couple of years . I still want to move, save money to buy a house , and I 'm getting married in a year . I do not want to disappoint anyone by changing careers so fast . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Will I have the money to pay off student loans and saving to go to school next year? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Please what should I do ? Thank you !
If you wanted something bad enough but did not have all the resources?0grandma bakes cookies2012-09-13 06:17:05
would have to find away to make it happen or give up ? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I want to buy a small business really bad , but I have all the money you need and I can not get a bank loan ( lack of attendance ) . Should I keep going or quit ?
I wanted to get a loan?1salad2012-10-20 14:05:02
my boyfriend is getting me a loan for a car because my credit is bad , but I need my title of my last car as collateral . but my car does not work , I still get the loan ?

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