Can't stand my life anymore, any advise?

Answers:1   |   LastUpdateAt:2012-11-05 05:48:02  

Question
heather.
Asked at 2012-09-07 23:31:04
I am married and I have three children and one on the way, all I do all day is cook all meals from scratch (its all you can afford), clean, fights off and miserable. My kids are 6, 3, 2 and never listen to anything they say. I'm so ashamed when I go anywhere. I think my oldest daughter is the worst she has the attention span of a fruit fly, and just talk all the time that teachers, coaches, or I'm trying to talk to her, I am constantly receiving criticism from all. My other two children are following suit. I love them, but so tired of dealing with these guys just never even try to listen. MedlinePlus I can not stand my husband thought of it makes me cringe, it has ruined my life. They messed up my education now I have 32 and no formal education. I was fired from my last job, can not find one to save my life. (Go to 3 years) My education is fucked so I can not pay my student loans so you can not afford to go back to school because they can not afford even the books. My husband has been in the same company for over 15 years and still pay peanuts, I've been telling for years to get another job, but can not find anything. So of course we are financially hurting so bad, he can barely afford to put food on the table. THEN do you have any more guys I know you are asking, well, my husband's vasectomy failed! (I do not blame him for that) MedlinePlus My in-laws who messed up our last hope, it was a business venture, owners of the house we live threaten to throw us out for not paying rent. We are just 300 behind. (Although we have a lot of $ $ $ $, and my husband is her only child and only grandchild)'m lost everywhere we look the bad things just keep popping up. My husband was recently diagnosed with MS, and is losing his memory and cognitive skills, we will be homeless, only to lose the car, and I just can not handle stress @ 7 months pregnant. What do we do? By the way, this really is not even half of all the bad things that have happened.
Answer1dav-0Answered at 2012-09-18 12:22:03
If you voted for 0bama I brought this on themselves ( and the rest of us too! ) MedlinePlus MedlinePlus My first suggestion would be to use all that free time you have to develop some parenting skills and discipline and get a grip on the children . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus If you can not find a job might consider obtaining the license as a residential nursery and get their cut of the lucky ones who still have a job. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Oh yeah , and do not vote for any more stinking Libs if you want the jobs available .
Answer2FonzeworthAnswered at 2012-11-05 05:46:37
Tough kids , ill husband , financially depleting , stress , stress and more stress .

You are a great mother , being able to withstand with the situation until now isn't that easy right ? You show great love to your family but things just got tough for you , and is real tough .

I would not know how to give you the best advice cause I do not know how bad the situation you are in . And it would be inappropriate to advice you to look for a part time job because you are now pregnant . Perhaps , you could try to seek help from your local charity , provide financial aids for your husband medical fees . As for your children , you need to know that you are not living each day just to make them survive , you have to give them love and care , have heart to heart moment with your daughter , let her know how you feel , tell her the story . You might things she is too young to know , but in this situation you need to have companions .

But one Godly advice for you , you might things is a dope . But when there's no way God is the only way . Pray to Him and you bring you out from this poverty and dark life . God save me once and I believe he will do the same to you .

Take care
Related Questions
1
  • Answer This Question:Can't stand my life anymore, any advise?