Would you borrow your Brothers and Sisters Money?

I have a cold and distant relationship with my family . When I see them at the party the silence is amazing . Usually gives me one word answers tense when I try to make conversation with my parents , brothers and sisters . It seems to us very much. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus The cold relationship suddenly becomes hot when they need money . Then the person on the phone acting all warm and loving ! MedlinePlus MedlinePlus My father called me for years and his car had broken down and that he had no money. Could a $ 500 loan . Well . But I told him to send me $ 50 a month for the next ten months. Each month a different excuse , no money paid. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus My older sisters have borrowed $ 500 for a variety of situations . Finally got my money , but always after countless phone calls and letters . They make me feel guilty for asking refund. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Now my little sister called and the car to be removed unless you can get $ 500 ( $ 500 always ? ) . She has been giving me the cold shoulder for years , but when I called yesterday acted so nice and warm . I said I 'd think about it . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Do you give loans to family and friends ? Even if you're not around ?