Please give advice if you can :)?

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Ehis
Asked at 2012-08-29 21:19:06
My boyfriend and I have been living together for two years. He is back in college and I work full time and have always worked together to pay the bills. This summer, do not even try to find a part time job. He plays World of Warcraft all day. It has become so bad that now I pay for everything. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus This includes:
My accounts (phone bill, student loan, car payment, insurance) MedlinePlus Our shared accounts (food, rent, utilities, cable)
Their accounts (phone bill, car insurance, cigarettes) MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I'm running out of money and I told him I can not afford to keep paying it. He laughs and says he will be fine. He still wants to buy him beer, cigarettes, wants to eat, etc MedlinePlus MedlinePlus This fall is his last semester at school, then he will be able to get a job in computer science or information technology, whatever. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I'm so tired of all this falls down on me! I'm being selfish and I know he has to be there for your partner through good and bad, but even when I helped pay the bills, he just gave me very little. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Your car insurance is up for renewal next week and I have to give the $ 1200. I tell him to f *** himself and borrow money from his mother. We're not even married, I do not think I should be paying all their shit. If it will not work, then he should suffer the consequences and let your phone bill and car insurance drop. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus You think I'm being cruel? Not even thank me. He sits at his computer all day at WOW. We hardly talk to each other. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I'm really starting to want out of all this. I have 24 years, I do not make much $ $ $ to start despite working full time. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus What do you think?
Answer1TammiAnswered at 2012-09-01 14:35:04
No, you're not being tough . You just found yourself living with a pivot, and he does not see why I should pay for milk when you have a cow . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus If you think so now , consider what will be like if you two get married and he has you on a leash law. Also, a man of integrity , that is all you want anyway, would not do such a thing to his wife if he could help it . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus It is time to ensure that all accounts that are needed to provide for you are getting paid , and the Destroyer Ogar find out the hard way what will happen if it does not recover his end of the load , and that includes food , beer and cigarettes . You may have to start eating itself to make this happen , and be prepared for some monumental arguments about this too, but if Loverboy not forced to become a man who will not. If he threatens to leave, let him.
Answer2tierraAnswered at 2012-11-03 07:13:39
girl. you need to get out of it. that's why you shouldn't live with somebody you're not married to. if you're working. he needs to work. period. he should be helping you take care of stuff not the other way around. you can see where this relationship is headed right. 'cause it's not gonna get better.
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