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Need Advice :/ Mens advice would be nice!?1Allison Anderson2012-08-27 10:11:03
Ok, so here goes ............ MedlinePlus I've been with my husband for 10 months living together for 5 months (yes, I understand that it was moving very quickly, but everything seemed so right). So far we have gotten along surprisingly well and I could not ask for a better relationship. We still do not yet have a single fight. A few months ago I decided to be a housewife and my man covers all bills and our house and cars are paid off. The bills are all we have cell phones, car insurance, and soon to be the repayment of a student loan. I have a 17 month old, from a previous relationship and has two children aged 13 and 10. We have not really talked about money and I've been doing out of my savings and will be fine once the child support battle with my ex is over (I'm not currently or has received support). Long story short I have a friend (bi sexual friend) having a lingerie shop she just opened a few months ago. She asked me to model their stuff in a local TV program he did and of course it was delited. He also asked me to model in their catalog list also did and had a lot of fun. This friend of mine in the past has expressed interest in me sexually, but I'm not bisexual, and not interested in that. I am also very committed to my man and I honestly believe that I will spend the rest of my life with him. My friend asked me to work part time in his shop and I accepted because I did not want to send my son to daycare to work full time and this way I can have my mom a few hours he would be working. My man is not happy with this, but for me to make my ends meet I have to have some income. So I had to help organize a party tonight lingerie / toy with this girl and one of her friends and then go out for drinks after. I asked my man today if it would be okay with him and he basically said no and then went on to say that he knows if nothing has happened between this girl and I something going and I will not be able to tell. Do you really trust me this small? He said we had to talk a little later. I think this is probably going to be our first arguement. Are you making a fool? Or am I? Advice would be nice.
I need financial, debt and student loan advice (or where to find how to get advice)?0Edric2012-10-11 00:51:13
This is long and complicated and I'm sorry, but I am in desperate need of help because I'm so overwhelmed. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I graduated from a public school in December over 80K in private and government student loans (It was so loud because where I went to school, the cost of living is very high and for most of the time I could not get donations). In January, I moved to another state with my husband to find work. We had enough money to last out there for about 5 or 6 months with the hope that this gives us enough time to find jobs. Through circumstances beyond our control we ended our last two months can not pay any of our bills for not having a job despite not being picky about where you applied and spend every day for completing applications and presentation resumes. We had to move back to the state where our families live and are now living with my husband's parents as we try to pay our debt, fix our credit and even save some money. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Under normal circumstances, I am very good with the accounts. I set alarms to remind me to pay and I had no problems until it became financially unstable. Suddenly we are on the verge of becoming homeless due and all kinds of things ... especially since my student loan deferments are upstairs. I sent paperwork to try to obtain indulgences for loan delinquency (private I have leans across three different places, and government loans through 2 because my original loan instead committed a government loan seconds to a different place. Difficult , I know). Now they are all saying "We never received any documentation", but I have proof it was sent, or tell me "These documents are not valid because the law changed and we need to submit new documents." Documents sent three months ago! Why are you telling me this RIGHT NOW? Ugh. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus So originally going to file papers saying they have no income or job. But a stroke of luck brought me a job. The pay is not what it should be, but my debt stacking and the fact that it is a job to do something I love, I took it. My husband, however, is still struggling terribly with the job search. And now I do not know what to do with our debt and my student loans and how to fix our problems and bring us back to the path of financial stability. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have the 80k (total between 7 different accounts ...) in student loans that are behind. I have an outstanding debt to a utility ($ 200), ISP ($ 200) and the rate of transfer of contract of the apartment they had rented ($ 760), the credit card debt that is 2 months late ($ 2,500) and a personal loan that I had to take to fix my car damaged ($ 3,500). As of now, we have no monthly bill, except a bill auto insurance that comes in the third week of September and we have to be able to pay about $ 100 to $ 125 per month on gas. I only make about $ 1,600 before taxes and since I live in CA I will have a lot of taxes taken out of it. Because I have so many bills to deal with, I feel totally overwhelmed and have no idea where to start or what to do. My first paycheck is coming and I pay a lower debt with the majority. But again, overwhelmed and do not know what to do. Any help I magic. Thank you!
Advice needed! I have no savings but would like advice on whether to rent or buy under current conditions?0almost there2012-09-07 06:25:15
Basically , I have no savings, but not bad and win a wage when the bank the other day to a separate topic advisor mentioned (obviously , in your sales pitch ) that she had just checked , and the bank was willing to offer a loan of up
Does anyone have any advice on consolidating PRIVATE student loans? I'm having bad luck and need some advice!2anglo2012-08-13 18:55:36
Does anyone have any advice on consolidating private student loans ? I'm having bad luck and need some advice !
I have a payday loan & need some advice on repayments. Can anyone give me some advice.?5co2012-09-28 21:46:03
I have a payday loan and now I'm experiencing some problems. I borrowed
Foreclosure advice (Kentucky): Need to know where to turn for advice?0keke2012-08-28 21:30:03
This is for my friend - not me. But I do not even know where to begin to help you find answers. She was in a long term relationship with another woman. They had been "married" four years ago. She moved to the woman's house. It refinanced the house and put fully on behalf of my friend. Now, four years later, suddenly dumps his girlfriend and begins to leave the house. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus The bride is living in the house, not pay the house payment, my friend is receiving legal notices of foreclosure. She can not afford the home itself and no credit to refinance or anything. It is my belief that they owe more on the house than it's worth. They tried to sell the house a year ago and failed. The house is currently on the market, but probably not selling - or not selling for the money you owe. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus The girlfriend lives there with her adult daughter. They pay nothing for all we know. All utilities are also on behalf of my friend. The two vehicles, both are operated on behalf of my friend (my friend's car and his girlfriend - my friend is going to keep your car and the bride wants her to keep driving). They also have loans and credit cards together. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Their marriage was (of course) to a legal (we are in Kentucky) and had no legal documents that deal with all kind of break. I say my friend needs to talk to a real estate attorney at least. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Has anyone been in a situation like this or have any suggestions on where to go for advice? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus What I think: MedlinePlus MedlinePlus 1. I think my friend has to prepare a paper on the house that says if the house sells for more than you should, they split the extra 50/50 (this will never happen in today's real estate market). If the house sells for less or is taken by the bank must divide the amount due 50/50 and pay. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus 2. The bride has to find a way to (A) pay the car loan for the car you want to keep or get (B) the car loan in your name. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus 3. My friend's girlfriend has to sign a piece of paper on earnings stating that it will pay until you leave the property. Thus, if not paid, I think my friend could take her to small claims court. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus More information (sorry so long): My friend has declared bankruptcy in the last 10 years, so that is not an option. She also makes very little money and have a child to support itself (not receive alimony or other assistance). The bride has more money and have more education than my friend. The bride also has not been kind during the break. He has cheated me in a trade agreement before and I have no doubt she would lie, cheat and steal to protect themselves and get out of paying money. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus MedlinePlus So that's the background. What would you do? MedlinePlus
I need some advice about apartment hunting & budgeting. Anyone have some advice?0bunni2012-09-21 20:20:05
I'm thinking of moving from my parents' house and renting an apartment . Currently , I'm making $ 13 an hour before tax , although that may be going a little early . I am working in Madison , Wisconsin , but now I'm living about 60 miles away and traveling every day . Obviously , gas costs are great and as they continue to rise, will not be long before it is not feasible at all. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have to pay about $ 260 a month for student loan payments , you'll pay about $ 50 a month for a cell phone , and will take on my car insurance soon, but do not know how much it will be yet. I probably want at least a basic Internet access and cable in an apartment MedlinePlus . MedlinePlus I also need to know how to find an apartment . I lived on campus when I went to college in Green Bay , so I do not have to worry about searching . What is an acceptable amount to pay monthly , especially since probably live by myself ?
I need advice anyone? positive honest advice thanks?1ouraclnd2012-10-10 12:14:03
Okay, so now iam a college student , and I am at a crossroads if I sell my car and move to Boston and just restart my life.Or stay where iam least another two years and finish my degree and my pre reqs - well i can apply to dental / pa school.I wanted to move and go to Boston University and finish my degree but iam sure of the cost .. and if it is even worth it .... I am very unhappy where I am , but regardless if I walk away or stay still I have to work to make ends meet in my own.So wondering if I can get honest advice about the others who were in a similar boat ... MedlinePlus MedlinePlus MedlinePlus and note, I'm going to school now cheap enough where I have to get any debt or so ... I'm not sure what to do .
I need serious career advice...Please help. I really need advice.?0Johnathan2012-09-21 02:30:02
I have 26 years and only take a Diploma . I am also holding a job of sales / marketing now . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I'm deciding below 2 options - MedlinePlus MedlinePlus 1. I quit my current job and sign up to be an air steward for Singapore Airlines and stay there forever . Singapore Airlines enable male managers to stay until age 50 . The pay is pretty good . Savings accumulated during years of flying and riding a small business when I retire MedlinePlus MedlinePlus 2. Go to a local university and take a degree. But I would have to take a bank loan . Get the degree , update myself, get a better paying job now and climb the corporate ladder for the rest of my life . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus MedlinePlus If I take option 1 , there are consequences . MedlinePlus If I leave the job of cabin crew halfway to find another job , there will be very limited choices of jobs as the skill set for the cabin crew is limited. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus But if I take option 2 , which will repay the loan after graduation all my life . MedlinePlus MedlinePlus MedlinePlus What path will lead ?
Please Help...I Need Your Advice!!!?0Azizeh2012-10-26 02:40:53
I'm a college student , and I already have about 40k in student loan debt . I'm in a situation where you really need to move ( their stressful where I live and I need a new environment ) . No one can live , and I only work part-time (hard to go to school full time, work full time, and maintain good grades ) . Is it a dumb idea to get 15K in private student loans to get an apartment and pay rent for a year and public services ? Furthermore , we have no credit card debt or anything, and I have someone who is willing to put his name on the loan application . What are your opinions? ? ?
Can i have some advice please thanks :)?0SammieR2012-09-05 00:07:04
Basically I'm in a bit of debt iv got a few payday loans and other loans and credit cards that can not afford the payments . iv been to citizens advice put me in a PayPlan but lost my job so I'm a bit stuck .. iv had a few debt management companies now chasing me , but I can not afford to pay all at the moment ... What I can do I live at home with my mother so I do not want bailiffs come here . Any advice would be greatly appreciated thanks im from uk and have about 21k unsecured debt in total
Can somebody help me out on some advice?2groove2012-10-20 19:58:03
im 18, still living at home, but I have a full time job, pay my way and give my parents the rent each month. im starting online classes this fall, so I can still keep my job considering that I take out student loans for school. that's just a little about my life lately ... MedlinePlus MedlinePlus anyway, lately I've been considering whether I should go out and get my own apartment. and after this weekend, I think it could be better. MedlinePlus my boyfriend is 23 years old, came to visit for the weekend, and yesterday we had planned to go to this concert I was in town yesterday morning my parents had errands to run, and my boyfriend and I was home alone ( IM SERIOUS nothing happened) I knew that my mom scared to be alone at home, so I left and went to tan and shop while he began to prepare for the concert. she called me while I was in the shop, and told me I was lying when I said nothing happened, he told me that I can trust, im up to no good ect,. Later that night after the concert, I went home with my friends, my boyfriend as he drove back to where it was. my mom seemed in a good mood (considering that he had been drinking) i was telling about my bf's friends and all the people I met who were very kind to me and invited me to the lake this weekend, and asked if you could go? went crazy. They called me a whore, i was told to go to F, I know she did not mean too, but she pushed me to my bed frame, and left a huge bruise on my part. and after that I called my friend to come get me work im not sure what to do. my mom did not send me text messages all day, im at work and texted me to and asked if he was right? i dnt want to hate me, and I am a whore and bad person. Yes I made stupid mistakes in my past, but I wish she would not hold that against me. hurts, and I'm tired of being called vain and selfish when I tan / training. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I do not want to leave, bc i love house, and I love my family. I just wish she would get so mad when I asked to do things. I never wanted all this to happen. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I move? im able to pay, I just do not know how I'll tell him. I do not want a bad relationship with my mother. I love you, I just find it hard to live together lately. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus someone please help .... Thanks and God bless.

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